Would like to say I feel privileged to have access to this forum with all of its knowledge!
I will try to keep this short but with at least some detail with the hopes that I can get a few views on this matter
About me: 20 year old student, I am reading through a lot of material but have yet to properly field test it (scared of ingraining bad habits)
Girl: HB8/9. Known her reasonably well for the past 5 years or so where she was my doubles partner in badminton (we compete). Previous to that she was a family friend and would come over when we were kids etc. There was a gap of a couple of years when we were around 11 etc etc. I developed feelings, it wasn't mutual (i messed up) but then I got over it partway through uni. Started reading the books and stopped having oneitis.
Problem: After going cold turkey, she starts initiating innocent convo and suggesting we meet up. Im seeing a few chicks at the moment so haven't had the time so told her no and generally negged her on her organizing skills back when i knew her better.
now that I have read up more on the game, stuff like "get out of the friends zone" stuff like the october man sequence and magic bullets, would you, if you were in my position try it again with her? if so how would you go about it?
Major appreciation for all input!
P.S anybody in the Cardiff Area (You or someone you may know?)