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    Default Opener for HB9 On Instagram/Twitter

    Hey guys, some girl on Instagram and Twitter started following me and I am trying to figure out the right angle to go about this.

    See whenever she posts a picture I see a bunch of guys commenting on it like "you are too cute" or "you have beautiful eyes, whats you number." Just guys being thirsty, and then I saw her post she doesnt give out her number on Instagram/twitter.

    Now I havent done anything yet, I think all I did was like 1 photo, otherwise I have been sitting back. How could I go about opening to her? I dont want to be like every other guy she has drooling over her, I want to be that one guy she does give her number too. Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: Opener for HB9 On Instagram/Twitter

    bump anyone?

    30 characters.......

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    Default Re: Opener for HB9 On Instagram/Twitter

    Well she has lots of guys chasing her already.

    You need to be different. She needs to see you as immune to her beauty. If you spot something that indicates a trait other than beauty, go for it. For example, she's a psychology major, pick up on it but in a fun way. Neg her a little, get her seeking validation from you.

    e.g. haha cute, I did sh1t like that when I was a kid! You're a bit of a goofball for a psychology major

    If you get the ingredients right, you'll be a nut she wants to crack. If you get her number though, she's expecting you to be cool, not just be all cool up until you get her number then "Surprise! I'm just like all the other guys you've ever given your number to!"

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    Default Re: Opener for HB9 On Instagram/Twitter

    Quote Originally Posted by beaker52 View Post
    Well she has lots of guys chasing her already.

    You need to be different. She needs to see you as immune to her beauty. If you spot something that indicates a trait other than beauty, go for it. For example, she's a psychology major, pick up on it but in a fun way. Neg her a little, get her seeking validation from you.

    e.g. haha cute, I did sh1t like that when I was a kid! You're a bit of a goofball for a psychology major

    If you get the ingredients right, you'll be a nut she wants to crack. If you get her number though, she's expecting you to be cool, not just be all cool up until you get her number then "Surprise! I'm just like all the other guys you've ever given your number to!"
    Got it, thanks my friend. I guess I just have to sit back and wait for the opportunity.

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    Default Re: Opener for HB9 On Instagram/Twitter

    No don't sit back and wait for the opportunity. It will bite you in the ass as some douche will come along, sweet talk her and bam you've lost her. Do not hesitate and just go for it.

    I would suggest that you don't even hint at the fact of a number in the first few messages. Get her interested in you by being different. As beaker said show her that you are immune to her beauty. Everybody loves to laugh so make her laugh in your messages. Before you send any messages you need to decide how you want to play it.. Direct or Indirect.. This will determine the path of your opening message and subsequent messages.

    If you decide Direct you could open with something like " Hey, So ive been stalking your twitter and instagram accounts :P ha ha Anyway I think you are really cute, so I decided I should be social and atleast say hi.... Soooo Hi. Although mentioning that she is cute in this message, it does not mean you are not immune to her beauty but instead shows your intentions from the get go. You should add something funny to the message and something to make her feel compiled to respond.

    Going indirect could entail you making a reference to one of her tweets or photos but it doesn't show any interest in "her" from your part. Read the text game posts on these forums to get an idea of good opening texts and adapt them to your style. Basically most of the tips regarding online dating would work with Instagram or twitter.

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    Default Re: Opener for HB9 On Instagram/Twitter

    I'm really sorry but I disagree with you supremo

    She's got guys being direct with her all the time. Something different will be more likely to catch her eye. A fun poking neg in the face if beauty is quite unmistakably flirtatious. I think that'd set the intention whilst being different to all the direct guys with no game. She's in an arena where she's expecting to be hit on, just like a club. HB expecting to be hit on respond far better to indirect because it's not given on a plate like the rest of the approaches.

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    No need to be sorry man �� to each their own hey. But it is possible to be direct without being like all the other guys. You worded it perfectly. Guys are direct with no game but being direct with game is different. No doubt a slight neg will yield results but it is dependent on the girl. If she hasn't put herself on a pedestal then there is no need for a neg and you also have to be very careful with negging over text. A great neg in person won't necessarily be great over text.

    I like to mix things up between direct and indirect depending on the situation rather then depending on the type of lady.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Supremo View Post
    If you decide Direct you could open with something like " Hey, So ive been stalking your twitter and instagram accounts :P ha ha Anyway I think you are really cute, so I decided I should be social and atleast say hi.... Soooo Hi.
    I like how you started this off, but is there a way we can tweak it so it wound be direct?

    Quote Originally Posted by beaker52 View Post
    I'm really sorry but I disagree with you supremo

    She's got guys being direct with her all the time. Something different will be more likely to catch her eye. A fun poking neg in the face if beauty is quite unmistakably flirtatious. I think that'd set the intention whilst being different to all the direct guys with no game. She's in an arena where she's expecting to be hit on, just like a club. HB expecting to be hit on respond far better to indirect because it's not given on a plate like the rest of the approaches.
    I feel like every guy is direct with her, I want to do something along the lines of what supremo said, like "Hey, So ive been stalking your twitter and instagram accounts :P ...."

    but how can i tweak it form there to be indirect?

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    Default Re: Opener for HB9 On Instagram/Twitter

    Well you could just take out the cute part and just say you seem to be really interesting so I thought I would be social and say hi. We can just give you guidelines but you ultimately need to tweak it to your personality. You don't exactly want her to think you are a particular type of guy from 1 message and then you carry on the conversation and you turn out to be different.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Supremo View Post
    Well you could just take out the cute part and just say you seem to be really interesting so I thought I would be social and say hi. We can just give you guidelines but you ultimately need to tweak it to your personality. You don't exactly want her to think you are a particular type of guy from 1 message and then you carry on the conversation and you turn out to be different.
    When you've come up with your perfect message, sit there and read the comments on her photos, as if you were her for 10 minutes. Imagine how she reads them (and take into account what she replies or... the fact she hasn't). Do you think she sits there smiling every time she reads 'gurrrl - you hot!!', thinking "aww thank you *dreamy breath out* id so fark you right now if you were here"? No, she probably doesn't.

    So when you try:
    "Hey, So ive been stalking your twitter and instagram accounts :P ha ha so I decided I should be social and atleast say hi.... Soooo Hi" [Or whatever you decide upon] Ask yourself what she's going to think.

    The first thing that comes through my mind with that example is 'Just another creep, but at least he's trying to be humorous'. If she's a young adult and hot, she probably actually has people that pester and bother her (read: stalkers). I personally wouldn't hook onto *that* anchor with my message.

    I dunno, I feel like I'm starting to become too opinionated in this thread so I'll probably butt out now.


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