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Thread: Being an alpha make and my situation don't mix

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    Default Being an alpha make and my situation don't mix

    Basically I've posted a number of threads of how I have feelings for a girl at work and to me at thus moment in time she is the only option , the only one I want , to get her we are told here to be alpha male but the contradiction is if I was an alpha male I wouldnt have this obsession with one women , also is it possible to become an alpha male on front of the same people who have witnessed your wussy behaviour over the years

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    Default Re: Being an alpha make and my situation don't mix

    Quote Originally Posted by Shadowcomplex View Post
    Basically I've posted a number of threads of how I have feelings for a girl at work and to me at thus moment in time she is the only option , the only one I want , to get her we are told here to be alpha male but the contradiction is if I was an alpha male I wouldnt have this obsession with one women , also is it possible to become an alpha male on front of the same people who have witnessed your wussy behaviour over the years
    -And not having this obsession to one women is bad?
    -Yes it is possible but it will take time
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    Default Re: Being an alpha make and my situation don't mix

    If I was in you're shoes (and i have been) i would ignore her existence, and get rid of that oneitis. It's not good man, especially if you have "feelings" for her and she doesn't have them for you. Believe that you're of higher value than that and stop putting her on a pedestal like you've been.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.


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