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    benbernanke73 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default LAST year semester at College REALLY need HELP!!!

    I'm a confident, good looking and smart guy. Definitively above average in looks and far above average in intelligence.
    I feel like I'm not achieving my potential at all. I really have ZERO excuses as to why I haven't banged many girls so far. It's like having a Ferrari in the garage and never using it. It's not a pleasant feeling and I feel like my youth is going to waste (I'm 24).

    I have isolated my weakness as follows:

    I often just don't have anything to say. I don't even have approach anxiety. Sometimes I talk to girls in my classes but after a few minutes my mind just goes blank and I can't continue the conversation or I don't even say anything to begin with because I have nothing to say. I have missed SO MANY opportunities with girls that were obviously interested because of this.

    Another problem is logistics. I can't just go sit right beside the girl I want to talk to when half the chairs are empty and I can't just run to the front to randomly talk to her after class. That would be really weird. Sometimes I do manage to say a few words but after the class ends I really have absolutely nothing to say and just say goodbye. This means I can't develop any new deep friendships outside of class.

    This also applies to some of the girls I already kind of know. I'm terrified of seeing them around campus or on the bus because I literally go blank after a few minutes/seconds of small talk and have to say bye or pretend like I'm reading something to prevent awkwardness. It doesn't really have to do with whether I find them attractive or not or whether I'm nervous although it's much worse if the are very attractive. I just cannot keep a conversation going when it's just me and ONE other girl. This is why I haven't been on any dinner dates because I know I'd have not much to talk about and it would be SUPER awkward.

    Now this problem is completely solved when it's me and two or more people. I'm often the leader in that case and have fun and make people laugh left and right and we never run out of things to say. But this is useless if you can't game girls individually and in private.

    Please offer me some advice as to what I can do. If it helps I'm well-read and always on top of the news etc and even celebrity news. I'm normal in every way except my conversation skills with girls are clearly lacking. Thanks a lot!

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    Capi is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: LAST year semester at College REALLY need HELP!!!

    The same case use to happen to me. I would be talking to a girl and all of a sudden I would not know what to say so I would just burst some random shit. But you are over thinking the problem, its getting too much into your head. You have to be confident when talking to them and postive that the conversation WILL continue. Sometimes it might be caused by fear so don't over think it. You might want to check a thread that is named "the simple art of conversation" by civilian. Whch you can find by clicking on the newbie guide in hottest threads, going down to the section where it discusses men wh do not know how to keep a conversation going and clicking the "click here" button. This should help you out!

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    Default Re: LAST year semester at College REALLY need HELP!!!

    This is an inner game issue!

    You lack self-confidence because you don't believe you have anything interesting to say. Well guess what!...

    you don't have to! You don't have to turn into the next Oscar Wilde conversation can be light and fun and you can talk about anything!

    Something funny you saw on tv? pop culture? anything! You want to find a hook, something you can bond over and engage with.

    I go with things like my favourite films. I even have my own shit test, for example if a girl doesn't like Anchorman or Step Brothers or that kind of humour then I'm not interested. I am the prize and I want the girl I'm with to share my sense of humor!

    The trick to getting better at conversations is to simply have more of them! not just with girls but with anyone and everyone.

    I was shy as hell when I started now I often get told to shut the hell up! HA


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