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    Angry girl problems while texting her

    Okay, im going to try to explain as best as i can. This girl and i were texting, and things seemed to be going good, b/c she sent me alot of messages in one day, and even when i stopped texting her she reinitiated the convo, but out of the blue, she texts about her "guy problems", and said that she needed advice from a guy(me D; ), so i didnt really wanna help her on this b/c she might only text me about that guy(you can see how troubling that can become). so i was being pretty vague, basically she was saying that her best friend from another country says that he misses and loves her(that last part is definitely not ideal lol), and she also mentions that he helped her out in rough times, also he's going to move and then the part that i didnt want to hear happened , she mentions that she would love to have something with him in the future. But there's also one other thing, she also isn't completely sure that she wants to go out with this guy.

    Bottom line: what would you guys do in this situation ?

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    Default Re: girl problems

    Ouch. Not a good sign. Well you already know not to be her emotional tampon.

    You could run a bf destroyer. But could backfire since they aren't actually together and she isn't complaining about him. Such as how he treats her.

    You could keep being vague with your responses, but it's still pretty bad to even do that. Try changing the subject.

    You can be a little more direct with your interest. Say something like "Do you always flirt with guys by talking about other men? Not really into that sort of thing hun." Or you could try "Are you trying to get me jealous? Ok you win. I'm jealous. I'm going to go cry and pour my feelings into my diary." All playfully of course.
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    Default Re: girl problems

    thanks for your input , so try changing the subject, and if that doesn't work, just move on?

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    Default Re: girl problems

    Lol not move on from her. But yes move onto another tactic. Such as accusing her of trying to make you jealous.

    Always assume attraction and that everything she does is just testing you because she likes you. It's better than assuming she doesn't want anything to do with you lol.
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    Default Re: girl problems

    I'd give her advice. I've spent many years fighting to stay out of the "friend zone" and have grown tired of it. You'll need to accept that there will be girls that won't work as a romantic partner but would be a great friend (I have slept with my two best girl friends and hooked up with the third but all of them we've realized a relationship wouldn't work).

    Now I'm not saying that you're definitely heading to the friend zone, if you're the only other guy that she's talking to you're the only other one to get a guy's opinion from! Just give her advice and move on from there, changing the topic quickly after. I wouldn't completely brush it off though because she will catch that and might call you out on it.
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