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Thread: convo help needed

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    Default convo help needed

    hi, I met this girl at work and we've been friends for a long time and been flirting regularly.
    today i was texting her and this is how the convo went

    Me: hey sweetie
    Her: hey, whats up
    Me: nothing bored and you?
    Me: do you work today?
    Her: nope hanging out with my friend farah
    Me: is she cute?
    Her: yeah shes a babe shes from egypt
    Me: oh that sounds like my type of habibi my albi
    Me: is she single?
    Her: no lol shes pretty much married
    Me: Pretty much doesnt mean yes theres still an oppotunity
    Her:no trust me theres not. shes locked in
    Me: are you locked in too or is there a chance?
    Her: Im not locked in lol but im not looking to date too busy with school and work
    (I thought this meant rejection so i played cool and backed off)
    Me: I never said i wanted to date
    Her: so you just want to be friends?(this msg mind effed me so hard. what do i reply to this? she rejected me and when i backed off shes not happy then either)
    should I be like "depends how you define friends?"
    what do you think I should say here?

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    Default Re: convo help needed

    can someone please provide any help?

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    Default Re: convo help needed

    "we should play it by ear " would suffice

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    Default Re: convo help needed

    Just tell her you don't like put labels on anything. You messed up by asking her if you still had a chance. You gave her all the power and control of your relationship at that point. Then, after asking her if there was a chance, you pretend like you weren't interested anyway. This is stupid because any girl is going to see right through that.

    Tell her you don't like putting labels on anything and change the topic. Don't talk about your relationship with her so transparently.

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    Default Re: convo help needed

    thanks for the replies. do you think i still have a chance or is it time to say bye?

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    Default Re: convo help needed

    Me: I never said i wanted to date
    Her: so you just want to be friends?
    99.95 chicks would've said WELL WERE GONNA BE FRIENDS NOW BUDDY NO CHANCE WITH ME, so she's asking you if you just want to be friends, powers at equal levels from what i can tell aka there's still room for gaming her


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