Lately I'm really focusing on my inner game, because I feel that the first thing I need to sort out before really anything else. I'm taking a particular interest in developing myself into a alpha male and working on the confidence and such.
I am re-reading John Alexander's book " how to become an alpha male" and enjoy it quite a bit and it has helped boost my confidence.
However, I think I'm just gun shy to display traits that people around me are in no way used to from me. They are used to me being a Beta nice guy. And the sudden shift and change could be alarming to them. But it's a change that needs to be made.
Do any of you guys have suggestions on developing into a alpha male without it looking like you have a mental problem to people who are so used to your old behavior? also, if anyone has any suggested material or books on inner game and/or developing into a alpha male, that would be AWESOME.