Re: One-itis.. Help me please?
Everyone here has it right. You just have to man up and move on. I used to get very attached to girls very easily. Every girl was "the one". I went through multiple relationships with a girl because she was perfect and "completed" me. Then I'd find another girl who was even better. Then another who was better than the last. Then I had an epiphany.
I don't need a girl to be happy.
Since then, my relationships have only been stronger. I haven't had a serious relationship since that realization because I haven't needed one or really wanted one. I've loved the girls I've dated since then (not in love, just loved the girl, there's a huge difference that I wish more people understood). But I made it as clear as possible - I was living for myself and if she got in the way of that I would drop her. Simple as that. She did something that made me unhappy, she was gone. Obviously I didn't take it to the extreme of one thing and she's gone, every relationships has its troubles and you'll fight, but if I felt she was really hindering me, she's gone.
I know it's harsh, but it's the reality of life. There's no fairy tale ending. There's no one perfect for you out there except yourself. You lose a girl, stop trying to pick up the broken pieces of the relationship. Because there's a better girl and better relationship out there. You just have to realize the chances that are out there and stop living for a girl and start living for yourself.
You are the prize. She needs to earn it.