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    Default One-itis.. Help me please?

    Alright, let me cut this short..

    I re-dated/hung out with an ex girlfriend for a month or so- literally six months ago now.. It went wrong. She's never gonna be my friend again.

    Thing is, I have a terrible feeling she's gonna be the most beautiful girl I ever meet/ way more beautiful than any other girl I'm gonna wake up next to.

    What do I do about this feeling? Just keep appraoching pretty girls and hope I find one who looks as good/talks as good/walks as good as her?

    Pray there's someone better to hang with.. Or, what?

    Any magic pills to rid me of one-itits?

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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    Approach bitches, aquire game = no one-ites
    "I've never seen anyone pull as quickly or as efficiently as you"
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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    She's never gonna be my friend again.
    who cares? you can meet lots of other people.

    Thing is, I have a terrible feeling she's gonna be the most beautiful girl I ever meet/ way more beautiful than any other girl I'm gonna wake up next to.
    why does beauty matter so much to you? so you can show her off to your friends? who cares. find a girl with personality

    What do I do about this feeling? Just keep appraoching pretty girls and hope I find one who looks as good/talks as good/walks as good as her?
    what made her any better than any other girl you could meet on the street? was she more show-off able? you only knew her for like a short time why does she have any significance at all?

    Pray there's someone better to hang with.. Or, what?
    of course there are better girls out there. and yet again why do you have to judge girls by their beauty anyways? every girl is beautiful in her own way. personality is far more important than looks anyways.

    get over her! she's probably a beautiful b!tch who could care less about you. the sooner you learn to get over her the better off you will be. go approach lots of wemon and have fun!

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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    why does beauty (by this I guess we're talking physical beauty)matter so much to you?
    I'm not down with second rate girls for waking up next to, for happily ever after. I want attractive girls with great bodies.. High class.
    Mediocre and easy, is easy for anyone to get, I want the diamond.

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    find a girl with personality
    Sure, this one had a great personality too. Not only looks would have me cut up.

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    what made her any better than any other girl you could meet on the street?
    A whole selection of things made her better than any girl I've known before.

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    you only knew her for like a short time why does she have any significance at all?
    I was with her for two years at the end of high school, loads of firsts together. Eight years later.. Six months being 'friends' again, all those feelings are back, a month/two of sleepin over and whatever. Wrecked it, with a whole lists of stupid sh1t that included her friends during the eight years apart, sayin stupid sh1t out of anger.. etc. Horrible.

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    of course there are better girls out there. and yet again why do you have to judge girls by their beauty anyways? every girl is beautiful in her own way. personality is far more important than looks anyways.

    get over her! she's probably a beautiful b!tch who could care less about you. the sooner you learn to get over her the better off you will be. go approach lots of wemon and have fun!
    Beauty is everything.. (inc.Looks, personality, lifestyle, shared memories etc.).. Everything that entails 'beauty', she had in absolute masses..
    The only reason she couldn't care less is cause of the stupid sh!t I did. She was in tears, that's the thing that makes this hard.. She didn't just cut me out, she wasn't just not in to me, I completely wrecked sh!t between us.

    That's what makes it hard. All my fault. In however many years and however many girl'pals' I've had, I've never fealt anything the same. It's fked man.

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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    I need better advice than, "get over her" dude. No one has it, I've read masses of info/advice, other forums, dunno what the hell to do. Feels like I've made a MASSIVE screw up. Ruined the fairytale.

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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    Life isn't a fairytale, you need a perspective change. Go see a counselor if this is something you seriously can't handle. A forum can only do so much.

    You need to man up, let me tell you there are girls just like your ex in the world and probably even better (they are just rare, like diamonds) and once you find that girl you have to not mess up. So you're on a PUA forum, learn how to pickup. Up your game and do everything you can to better yourself. Even if you wanted to get back with your ex, the way you're acting right now will NOT get you back with here. You're not being Alpha, you need to man up.

    I have no reason to sugar coat this for you. The fastest way to get over a girl is to fark other girls, I learned and I'm sure a ton of guys on here have learned also. You need to realize that you don't "need" a girl in your life to make your life enjoyable. Having a girl in your life is just an added bonus, but in all honesty it should be the girl that "needs" you and not visa versa.

    I wish you the best of luck. This is YOUR time now, your time to shine, time to do things that make YOU a better person. You need to change your mindset and start kicking ass, at everything you do. Go out, make new friends, meet new people, hit the gym, do yoga, do whatever you feel will make you a better person.

    This is my advice to get over one-itis, and also... the more you think about her, the more you'll think about her. So stop thinking about her and move on.

    Good luck

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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    Disregard chode aquire game. Dont be a chode. Theres nothing we can say to u to fix this cause its not a technique, its ur weak azz mindsets.
    "I've never seen anyone pull as quickly or as efficiently as you"
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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    0rooster0..

    Step one of disregarding chode mode would be much appreciated. Something I can do right this minute to make a step..

    Been on my arse too long. Loads of people have advice, loads of reading, approaching girls gettin number closes, kiss closes, full closes over the holiday period.. Still revert back to "She was the best there will ever be"..

    Drop me some hints or point me in the direction for step one of conquering 'chode mode', if you will.

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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lust View Post
    Life isn't a fairytale, you need a perspective change. Go see a counselor if this is something you seriously can't handle. A forum can only do so much.

    You need to man up, let me tell you there are girls just like your ex in the world and probably even better (they are just rare, like diamonds) and once you find that girl you have to not mess up. So you're on a PUA forum, learn how to pickup. Up your game and do everything you can to better yourself. Even if you wanted to get back with your ex, the way you're acting right now will NOT get you back with here. You're not being Alpha, you need to man up.

    I have no reason to sugar coat this for you. The fastest way to get over a girl is to fark other girls, I learned and I'm sure a ton of guys on here have learned also. You need to realize that you don't "need" a girl in your life to make your life enjoyable. Having a girl in your life is just an added bonus, but in all honesty it should be the girl that "needs" you and not visa versa.

    I wish you the best of luck. This is YOUR time now, your time to shine, time to do things that make YOU a better person. You need to change your mindset and start kicking ass, at everything you do. Go out, make new friends, meet new people, hit the gym, do yoga, do whatever you feel will make you a better person.

    This is my advice to get over one-itis, and also... the more you think about her, the more you'll think about her. So stop thinking about her and move on.

    Good luck

    Appreciate you taking the time to write this man.. Got some councelling lined up ha!

    "once you find that girl, don't mess up"
    LoL, a while too late to not do that, she'll never talk to me again.

    Memory erasing is what I need.

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    Default Re: One-itis.. Help me please?

    My one-itis is finally starting to work itself out. I used to have this huge crush on a cheerleader (no less) who is quite busty. This crush started way back in the sixth grade of middle school. I'm now finishing up my senior year. Not once in these last seven or eight years have I gone up to her and confessed my affections. I merely sat in the sidelines as she dated skaterboys and then jock after jock.

    Well, fast forward to this day. Since I've started gaming women the golden lustre that surrounded my one-itis has slowly begun to vanish. With my newfound confidence and "I-don't-give-a-shite" attitude, I actually started chatting her up online and in real life. It turns out she is nowhere near as interesting or kind or smart as I had made her out to be. The diamond I had expected to be beneath that golden lustre turned out to be a lump of coal. Yeah, the hell with that girl.

    The only advice I can offer as a newbie is to get out and meet new people. Eventually you'll find someone even more amazing than what nostalgia is making your ex out to be.


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