Re: Cannot Trump This Girl Here's Why
Do not acknowledge her looks. At all. Do not tell her she is attractive. Do not tell her that she is unattractive. Just do not acknowledge it whatsoever.
As you have already been intimate with her, there are obvious IOIs from both sides so negging her would not work in this situation. I'd go with more direct game. Tell her what you want out of the relationship, whether it's fbuddies, an LTR, whatever you want.
As for your question on the sh1t test, yes, it is a sh1t test. She wants to see if you're still interested. Don't respond right away next time. Take your time with it.
Also, I'm not sure how often you do, but it seems you don't see her extremely often. If that's the case, try and see her more. Gaming is significantly easier in person.
You are the prize. She needs to earn it.