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    Default house party social dynamics

    Yo.

    So I've been invited a house/pool party this coming weekend by a close female friend of mine. So there is bound to be a lot of women there. The question I hav is; in the context of this party (wher I'm obligated to stay a while) do I just number close a whole bunch of women and then setup later dates? Or do I actually try open 2 or 3 sets find a few good ones and then try F-close? F-close would then mean I have to leave the entire party and drive quiet the distance back to my place or hers (Johannesburg is a huge city). And it could mean leaving the party early. I'm not expected to leave early and I don't want to leave early because my friends will be there but I tend to get tired of chasing after a few hours and if I'm with a specific woman for the whole night I don't know how to maitain attraction n keep the convo flowing.. I just run of things to say you know?

    So do I play it safe and just number close? Or do I stick it out at the party and chasing tail all night?

    What would bbe the most strategic gameplan going into this? Where should my mindset be in terms of what to expect.

    Because at a club you know people don't go there to be there forever they are planning to either club hop or leave with someone but I find house parties are a little bit different.

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    Default Re: house party social dynamics

    *refreshing slap*

    Stop worrying about what you should do and focus on what you want out of the party. Do you want to fclose that night? Do you want to kclose with the hottest girl there then F her on a D2? Wanna just meet a bunch of people and get a bunch of numbers? Wanna just have fun with your friends.

    P.s. you can do all or some of these together. Here's some basics of the way each goes down. Remember this is just the basic social format and variations will abound.

    -Sameday fclose: starts with her noticing you as the life of the party (high energy, social proof and preselection) through the party she finds herself most excited when with you (very stimulating, lots of pushpull) ends at a lull in the party when, after running indirect game and some ambiguous direct you say "wanna get out of here?"
    -Kclose the most desirable: starta with, I dunno, getting introduced by a friend. Throught the party she's qualifying herself and the mutual attraction/rapport is building high. Around C1 you kclose after running lots of kino prior. It ends with "lets get dinner or drinls sometime, Ill call you"
    -Lots of numbers meet people: just be really sociable. Throught the party talk about anything situational as you intro yourself to strangers (assume they are just friends you havent met yet) end it with "hey your cool, lets hang sometime whats your facebook" youll prob get a number
    -Hang with friends: politely ignore the people you don't know
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: house party social dynamics

    I agree with Autismus. I think you should stop worrying and overthinking and just have a great time at the party. Be the most social guy there, be fun, high energy (house parties are great place to be high energy)... be fun with both the men and women at the party. Once women see you are the life of the party, they will be the ones asking for your facebook or number. Nowadays, all I do is 'facebook' close (i have a great facebook page, etc.). But women will naturally want to hang out. Jsut have a good time.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: house party social dynamics

    I don't know if this is PUA lingo in the textbooks, but what is D2 and A3? and other letter number codes? lol

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    Default Re: house party social dynamics

    Autismus is referring to the basic routine of a pickup. There are three stages, Attraction (A), Comfort (C), and Seduction (S). Inside these stages are three substages.
    A1 is opening a set. A2 is female to male interest. A3 is male to female interest.
    C1 is conversation. C2 is connection. C3 is intimacy.
    S1 is foreplay. S2 is LMR (Last minute resistance). S3 is sex.

    It is commonly practiced as the way to build a real relationship with a girl. This does not have to be a LTR (Long Term Relationship) but is needed if you are looking for more than a ONS (One Night Stand). Otherwise you could easily experience buyer’s remorse from the girl (her “regretting” she slept with you because she’s “not that kind of girl”).

    Mystery’s book The Venusian Arts Handbook fully explains all of this and can be found with a simple Google search.

    The only other code I see is D2, which is Day 2, or a second meeting between you and the girl. These are often needed as it typically takes about 7 hours to complete all of the above stages if you are doing them correctly and not rushing. Some girls can go through it faster in as little as four hours, others take longer, up to 10, but it’s very rare for her to be outside of that range and it’s typically about 7 hours, which is hard to reach in one meeting if you meet her at around midnight (pretty typical time to start finding girls to leave with to take home IMO).

    As for what to do at the party, listen to Autismus. Don’t try and only get numbers. Don’t try and only get an f-close. Who says you can’t get both? It’s pretty typical for me to kclose/nclose multiple girls at parties/bars before leaving with another. Just go in expecting to have fun and open a lot of sets. If you find a girl that you want to take home, do it. If you only want an nclose, do it. Don’t decide until you’re in the set and talking with the girl though.
    DOOOOONNNN'TTTT CAAAARREEEEE

    You are the prize. She needs to earn it.

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    Cool Re: house party social dynamics

    Quote Originally Posted by studmuffin52 View Post
    I don't know if this is PUA lingo in the textbooks, but what is D2 and A3? and other letter number codes? lol
    it's from mystery method, give it a read


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