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Thread: How to get to know her

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    Default How to get to know her

    Hi guys, i'm not sure what to do or what to think.

    So there is this girl I have met and kissed a few times, we've never really had a good conversation since we only know each other about 3 weeks and have only met each other at parties or in the local bar. To be precise we have just seen each other 3times, kissed 3 times and and we haven't chatted/texted that much, but still it was noticable.

    We're still both young and live at our parents houses and I'm a virgin and i'm pretty sure she is, but I could be wrong, but I'm planning on her being my first.
    It's not like she's the only girl I've kissed in a long time because since we've met I also kissed 2 other girls.

    Last friday I told her we should have a drink at a cafe, so i thought a date, she said she couldn't but that she would be in town at night.

    That night I asked her if she'd be at the bar where we met the first time and when she came there we started talking. We talked for about maybe 20minutes, I'm not sure though because I did drink a liiiittle bit too much, and she was talking about a friend of her dating to long blah blah, long story short: she doesn't want to date, she only wants to hook up at parties, so just keep it the way it is

    After that we made out for quite a long time I escalated a bit more than usual because I thought: "Okay I just have to show her I don't just want to kiss".

    So I'm not sure what to do now....
    I don't really know what to text(whatsapp) her, but I have the feeling I should send her something because when I do I show her I'm interested in more than kissing in the bar. I'd really like to know her better!

    Feel free to ask for more details. Laterzz

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    Default Re: How to get to know her

    You're a dude. She's a girl. She already knows you want to have sex! It's not a mystery. This girl definitely likes you. I think you do whatever it is you are doing that is attracting her, enough to make out with you for a long time. Then continue to build rapport and escalate further. Take your time, or speed up... you got to feel it out right. Remember it's probably her first time, so it may be harder. I would go slower pace than usual on this one.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: How to get to know her

    What I have noticed with gamers or aspiring PUAs or men who just wants to get laid is forget the basics and simplicity of women.

    If you read girl tweets or instagram.. you see shit like "if you love me, tell me" or "show me that you are worth my time" ... if you want to tell her .. do it over dinner , and if you want to be her first, then i say you cook her dinner or invite over to cook together (lots of kino and sexual escalation opportuinities).. make it special, talk to her, know her. Invite her and say "i feel it's appropriate to know you better without all the alcohol and the same location. Why don't you come over for dinner... "

    if you want to show her you are worth her time, take her by surprise and plan something special and call it a date ... it's winter here in northern parts of north america, go skating, grab some boiling hot noodles and hit it off.

    we live in 2013, and getting the girl is equally as easy as getting on in 1900s, talk to the girl, treat them nice with a surprise twist and entertain them originally.


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