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Thread: So I got a # I don't want to waste my shot

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    Default So I got a # I don't want to waste my shot

    So saturday night I got a number close in maybe like 3-4 minutes from a very cute Argentinian girl. After I got her # I asked her if she would like to go to the beach with me sometime and she said ya...

    Probably should have gone for the K-close (we were all keno..) or talked to her longer but oh well hindsight 20/20

    She is younger than me (I think 18) I'm 24, should I call or text, and when?

    Normally I wait 3-4 days and call but I'm not sure what the kids are doing nowadays. I'm not posting this for one girl this is generally something I need to know for future reference as well.

    Also if you could explain why you would use the method you suggest I would appreciate it also.

    Thnx
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    Default Re: So I got a # I don't want to waste my shot

    Texting has changed the dynamics. I would text her sooner rather than later. I tend to text as soon as I leave the bar, with something C&F, like "tell me how much you miss me already?" You get response, a few back and forth then you cut it off. Be very careful with texting... most guys mess it up by making them too long.
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    Default Re: So I got a # I don't want to waste my shot

    Quote Originally Posted by blazeboy View Post
    Texting has changed the dynamics. I would text her sooner rather than later. I tend to text as soon as I leave the bar, with something C&F, like "tell me how much you miss me already?" You get response, a few back and forth then you cut it off. Be very careful with texting... most guys mess it up by making them too long.
    Ok so in the future will probably text the night of meeting. Thanks. Will add that to my repetoire...

    Should I text this specific girl tonight or tomorrow during the day?

    Want to increase my odds she was super cute.
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    Default Re: So I got a # I don't want to waste my shot

    I typically text the girl the next day with something that will make her respond. "Hey, it's KnightTurner from last night. So the weirdest thing happened last night after leaving...." This will get her interested and wanting to talk.

    I'd read up on GunsnGlory's Guide on texting. He knows what he's talking about and will be able to give you some good tips.
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    Default Re: So I got a # I don't want to waste my shot

    @ Knightturner...

    Thank you because I just completely crashed and burned in txting convo haha!

    I think it's partially because I didn't build enough rapport with her when I met her. Oh well until next Wednesday (ladies night)

    I will read for now thanks
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    Default Re: So I got a # I don't want to waste my shot

    And also realize that there are going to be a lot of "wastes" while learning. You don't need to try to mess it up, but there are times you're going to. Just don't take it personal, learn from it and move on to the next try!
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

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    Default Re: So I got a # I don't want to waste my shot

    I agree with Elitist, think abundance. To be honest, numbers are quite easy to get. So don't get caught up on one girl. Practice away.

    Keep them short
    Keep your frame, do not answer her questions always (mystery)
    Take your time to respond....
    Always be the one to cut the convo first (She will likely initiate again)

    In short, do what you would do in person. Frame control.


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