I am new to this world. I never knew that such a community existed until I read Style's book. This motivated me to improve my game. I have a very strong personality in a quiet places which allow for conversations; however, in clubs, I am not very comfortable.
I am a great dancer. I am a Bboy that is great at hip hop dancing and salsa. I can easily make everyone in the club look at me when I dance, creating a dance circle... or just people cheering me on. I would also qualify as a good looking guy. However, I have a problem escalating to close intimate moments with girls. When I approach them in clubs, due to the very loud music, I usually rely on my moves to woe her. A lot of girls get intimated, which ultimately results in a skeptical "No" to a dance. And when a girl does dance with me, she usually never gets intimate or close. I believe that this is mostly my fault because I don't get too grabby because I actually find it despicable when I see other guys do it. What do you guys suggest I do to move my game to the next level regarding the opener, approach... all the way to closing.
Thank you for the help,