So I'm interested in this girl and feel like I have played it fairly well, but since returning from the holidays I have not gotten the same signs of interest as before. The story is: I went out with a large group of people a couple of weeks before Christmas, and the two of us were pretty flirtatious and touchy-feely. At one point I told her (didn't ask) that she should go out with me. She told me to ask her after we got back from holiday vacation. Normally I'd be weary of this, but it was followed by kino--she put her leg on mine at the bar, side touching, etc.
Since returning though I feel like she's not expressing the same interest. We've only gone out (again in a group) once, and I probably didn't have the best energy as I had had a long day, but am also certain I didn't do anything needy. Was just enjoying myself. I spent some time talking to other girls/friends one of which seemed interested in me and was in a pretty good mood.
Anyway, I felt like she didn't give me that many signs of interest, nor did I have time to talk/flirt with her much--she's hit on by other guys fairly frequently. Should I just approach her and tell her to do X activity with me (aka, "ask" her on a date) or wait until we go out and try and alpha male/kino her? In need of help.