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    MTARRAGO is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Im not ready for a realitionship line

    what do you all think this means

    I read about this and am unsure and can not find a good post about it

    Im not ready for a realitionship

    I am bring this up as I went out with a girl and she stated she like me a few days later I got this I was thinking about stuff and im not ready line

    this line implys to keep talking to her but it can be a nice way to tell me bye what do you guys think?

    this happen during our second time out

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    Default Re: Im not ready for a realitionship line

    What is your physical relationship like (Have you fucked her, kissed, etc.) I mean she could genuinely just want to sleep with you and not commit. Did she say Lets just be friends? Give us more details!

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    Default Re: Im not ready for a realitionship line

    Sure^ we have not done anything other then a huge time investment {atleast 10 hours of chat over the phone}
    text was slow As I made her call me or really spaced out texts.

    I was at her house and layed on her lap she did not mind even rubbed her tits with my head she did not react at all {like no big deal} but she did not hould my hand

    I call her out on the no houlding hands {I said it makes me feel like you do not feel the same as I do}
    atfer geting me to say I liked her she replyed I like you aswell

    yes she did state lets be friends {we must be}

    Atfer reading your thing it lets just be friends it seems odd why would she say she liked me?

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    Default Re: Im not ready for a realitionship line

    Quote Originally Posted by MTARRAGO View Post
    Sure^ we have not done anything other then a huge time investment {atleast 10 hours of chat over the phone} It is said all the time, too much comfort with no attraction = Friendzone
    text was slow As I made her call me or really spaced out texts.
    This is good, I think you just failed to build up attraction

    I was at her house and layed on her lap she did not mind even rubbed her tits with my head she did not react at all {like no big deal} but she did not hould my hand
    Again she seems comfortable but not really attracted. I don't know the context before but I think you needed to escalate after the initial contact. You can't just INVEST time in her. You need to flirt, tease, demonstrate higher value and continue with your kino escalate. Always FLIRT. Always

    I call her out on the no houlding hands {I said it makes me feel like you do not feel the same as I do}

    Very bad move dude, AFC. I mean you didn't even make a move on her, you didn't trigger her attraction switch by flirting and now you are talking about feelings.


    atfer geting me to say I liked her she replyed I like you aswell

    yes she did state lets be friends {we must be}

    Yep, Friendzoned.
    Read the comments above. In essence, I think you failed to continue on the attraction building during your dates. I mean she clearly liked you at one point but there was no attraction just comfort. I think you should freeze her out for a bit, and come back strong with a lot of flirting and higher value.

    Let me ask you, how do you know this chick? School, work, group of friends? I ask because if you see her often you need to trigger her jealousy by hanging out with other girls (DHV)

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    Default Re: Im not ready for a realitionship line

    I knew about her for years {cusin bff} but it was a weak connection other then some texts about 4 years ago
    ^helped get her #

    We meat up at a romanic event
    as for the freeze out for atm its been a few days how long do you recommend I am thinking 1 1/2 weeks

    if any thing I would like to use this girl to increase my SN but thank you for the advice I atleast know what I did incorrect and can improve it thank so much

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    Default Re: Im not ready for a realitionship line

    Glad to help. I mean it's a toss up. Essentially the point of the freeze out is to come back as a new more alpha male and try to reverse the roles on her. I think go for 2 weeks.

    Do not acknowledge to her your mistakes or apologize for anything. It's a fresh start, pretend nothing ever happened.

    Make the texts short, funny. Start her off with a cliffhanger
    "You're not gonna believe what happened to me...!!"

    Then start over. Throw in some DHV stories (Crazy late xmas gift from your stalker/ex/whatever) Then work on hanging out again and be really flirty. Do not text her too much, just tell her you're going to your favourite restaurant and she's buying! LOL


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