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    Default What kind of date should I ask her on

    So I was at a new years eve party. I went to the bathroom. In line I met these 2 girls, HB6 + HB9. After a few minutes of talking to them HB9 says there is something different about me, and asked to see my phone. She put her number in it.

    So, she obviously wants to see me again. What I am wondering is what kind of a date should I ask her on. Since we barely know each other and things are simple at this point, I was thinking that I should just go get a drink with her near where she lives. Any kind of a date is really just going to be us asking each other questions and such anyway, and this would provide a perfect getting to know each other atmosphere.

    On the other hand we barely know each other, so maybe 1 on 1 may put a little much pressure on both sides, which could be bad. So the other thing I was considering was taking her out with my friends, to a live music show. This could be good because we would still talk to each other, but your friends always bring out the best in yourself, and would buffer the whole thing away from being a stereotypical "date" situation. However, unless she brings a friend or 2, she may feel isolated, and I feel like asking her to bring people she knows is a little unusual.

    So should I just go get a drink with here and maybe an appetizer at some bar (lol puns)? I don't even know if she is 21 hahahaha. Any help appreciated people!

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    Default Re: What kind of date should I ask her on

    Personally, I always go the let's meet at a cool restaurant for drinks to get to know each other. Of course you just met each other. Who cares? The point is to get to know each other, and there is no better way then one-on-one time. I love situations like that where I know the girl has serious interest (btw she showed some serious interest, good job). Then the date become super easy.

    Now the whole friends thing... if you are going to do that, you should play the role of, i'm a social guy, i set up all the get together's and parties because i'm that guy. that's a good thing, to be the fun instigator. So if you go that route, definitely tell her to invite some friends. that way you are hooking up your boys too.
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    Default Re: What kind of date should I ask her on

    Hmmm maybe I will just ask her out to have a drink, and gauge her interest in coming out with my crew. Funny thing is it usually is me that sets things up and gets people together...Not necessarily for parties but going places.

    Should I call her? If so at what time. Or should I text. I'm thinking call would be best

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    Default Re: What kind of date should I ask her on

    Bump. Hey guys I need to set up a meet with this girl hopefully by the end of the day. Can I get some more replies here? Really interested in some second opinions

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    Default Re: What kind of date should I ask her on

    Text her something u remember about her (hey blondie... but that one is pretty corny lol). If she doesnt remember, tease her about being drunk that night and how u guys shared such a magical experience (dont give away u were waiting in line with them quickly. Let her guess a couple times first). Play up the i thought we had a connection and now your disappointed. Tell her she prob just wanted u for your body just like all the other girls (use emoticons to imply u are teasing).

    Ok no after u do this if it goes well... saybecause she forgot about u, u r not sure if she will be a good friend. She must meet u for coffee or at the mall while u shop so u can find out more about her.

    The trick is to set up a date that has little investment. She wont think too much about it. And since its a day date, ig u dont like her u can just tell her your budy running around etc.
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    Default Re: What kind of date should I ask her on

    LockDown, I only talked to her and her friend for 3 minutes just making them laugh, I really don't know anything about her. Tryna learn those things lol

    So I just called her to ask her out for drinks, preferably somewhere in her area. She didn't pick up, so I am wondering what my next best move to make is regarding this case. For now I am just going to concentrate on another girl. But this one here is really hot, and from what I have learned through friends, possibly from the Balkan Peninsula, so I don't want to give up.

    I'm thinking I should just text her in a day or 2 and see whats up, or see if she gets back to me. Any guidelines on how much time should pass...ect?

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    Default Re: What kind of date should I ask her on

    My point was that u take what u did know and act like u two had some connection. Inviting her out to drinks can be seen as an investment because u will have to work to know each other. My day date kinda just implies it... its not so overt. Its less scary for a girl who barely knows u.
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    Default Re: What kind of date should I ask her on

    I see what you mean now that would be a good idea. Although we were fairly drunk and all I can remember is that we were all locked out of the bathroom looking for the key.

    I think you are right, lowing her "investment" in this would remove hella pressure and make this easier for both of us. So how could I do this knowing next to nothing about her?

    I like being straight forward and not playing mind games, so I would prefer to avoid telling her I don't think she would be a good friend or something to that effect. Although it does seem like something along those lines could be the only bet.

    Any advice as to action at this point?

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    Default Re: What kind of date should I ask her on

    U r not playin mind games... you are just teasing and having fun. There is something called intrigue which women find attractive you know lol.

    If u were both tipsy, u could use that to find out about her... as in... you dont rember who she is and want to find out.

    If u left a message, text her after a few days. If u remember her name ask her as if your not sure. Or ask her if she was the (blond, tall or short etc..) one.

    Dont leave her a message again tho.
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