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    Razer is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Second Date Advice

    So I met this girl on a Halloween party and we kinda hit it off. Didn't talk to her until Jan 1st, when I wished her a happy new year. Long story short, we had a date this Monday.

    During the date I did The Cube on her (only the Cube part) and told her I will do the rest next time we meet. Also did some palm reading. She was really impressed. I got a lot of IoIs from her (i.e. hair touching, kino, long eye contact, asking me questions...)

    We started talking about school and I mentioned to her that my Chinese cougar teacher has a crush on me, because Im the only white guy in that class. And quickly added that the teacher's not my type. She then asked me what my type is and I told her that I like pretty girls, but its not always about how you look, to a huge extent it's about the personality of the girl that I care about. I could have kiss closed then but I didn't and I kind of regret it.

    After the date I texted her that we should hang out again and she replied she was just thinking the same thing.

    I need some help choosing a good second date spot and some conversation topics if possible. Would you recommend a shisha bar? Its dark and private. Or would you recommend a billiards/pool place? I dont want to spend too much money on her until I know for sure this is going somewhere

    Thanks in advance

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    studmuffin52 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Second Date Advice

    first dates I call the meet and greet .. coffee, dinner, ice cream, drinks ..

    second dates is what I call interactive... ideas I enjoy is, glow in the dark golf, laser tag, shopping, a trip to the park for tennis, soccer, basketball (if she's into sports)... i do beach volleyball because the sand makes it so much more fun. All of these ideas are 15 and below per person. Other ideas is art gallery or museum and see if they have some interesting limited time exhibits.

    Ex. I took a girl to the piccasso festival in Toronto and she was in school for arts, so we bonded perfectly and things escalated to extended dinner and a trip to her new apartment...

    first find her interests and start brainstorming.

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    Razer is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Second Date Advice

    Thanks

    You gave some pretty good advice. Ill definitively look up places in Toronto for glow in the dark golf, laser tag.

    Outdoors activities are i think off the table :P Winter in Toronto can be pretty cold and I want us to have a good experience. Ill definitely keep brainstorming!

    At the date itself, I know I am going to finish The Cube for her. Do you know of any similar games to get to know her better, while she gets to know me better as well? Most of the games I know are just cold reading where I tell her stuff about herself, but I feel like I need to build more rapport by telling her a couple of things about myself as well.

    Thanks for the advice

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    Default Re: Second Date Advice

    as lame as it sounds...

    this girl and I did
    - rock paper scissor slap
    - thumb war
    - patty cake

    kids games in adults makes it interesting .... lots of touching, comeptition, sexual tension...


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