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    .complete.noob is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Problem: Life is wrecked..

    I spent 6/7 yrs sitting around smoking pot and playing xBox..

    Old friends are becoming doctors/nurses/accountants LIVING LIFE and I've been sitting in the house all this time.

    No education, bent out of shape, no money, no job (for another few weeks), no friends/social circle (talk to about 5/6 people), and hardly ever leave the house.

    Lost a lot of respect for some of the things I've done.. Becoming a druggy and upsetting a bunch of girls over the years really doesn't sit well for the future.

    How the hell does someone like me, make a freaking life that includes lots of friends and beautiful women?

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    .complete.noob is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Problem: Life is wrecked..

    Difficult one, ay? Yep. Have to wake up everyday to NO PLAN whatsoever. Awesome.

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    Default Re: Problem: Life is wrecked..

    Throw your xbox away, or sell it. Stop smoking pot. Go see a counselor. Get a job. Get out of your parents basement. Go DO something with your life. Isn't it obvious?

    Good luck

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    Default Re: Problem: Life is wrecked..

    Quote Originally Posted by Lust View Post
    Throw your xbox away, or sell it. Stop smoking pot. Go see a counselor. Get a job. Get out of your parents basement. Go DO something with your life. Isn't it obvious?

    Good luck
    Lol. This seems like the easiest answer I've seen to any question on this forum. At the same time, it's probably going to be the hardest to implement.

    Figure out WTF you want out of life and go get it.

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    Default Re: Problem: Life is wrecked..

    Man, I spent a few years doing the same thing as well. Caught some felonies last year actually. Best thing you can do is go get a job, look into restaurants they usually have cute hostesses. And what ever you do don't talk about how you feel about your life situation with girls.

    Another suggestion, go to a music festival. It WILL cheer you up and you will meet a lot of people. I've found some really easy going people there...

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    Default Re: Problem: Life is wrecked..

    You have to set small, short-term goals. Men didn't aim at the stars and get disappointed because they didn't reach them. They started with air planes and worked their way to rocket ships.

    Focus on yourself first and start including people in your life that accomplished what you want. And honestly, straight up ask for their advice. Tell them that you want to surround yourself with people like them. Not only will they feel special because of that, but you get their influence so it works both ways.

    P.S. I was hooked on xbox myself back in July. I do miss it sometimes, but I've honestly noticed how much MORE I've got done without it since time doesn't fly by. I told myself that once I get where I want to be I'll get an xbox 1000 lol.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Problem: Life is wrecked..

    as someone said before, throw away the xbox. Try doing a sport which is social, like footbal, capoeira or something similar, maybe something you liked it in the past. You gonna get involved with more people and make friends not to mention move your ass a bit and get fit.

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    Default Re: Problem: Life is wrecked..

    I really thought the advice from the gym approach thread was great.

    Quote Originally Posted by Instinct View Post
    I know, trust me I know - I was the same way. Trust me - you aren't wrong, but I can help you get really happy if you trust me.



    I started pick-up with mystery method and so many times I thought - I'll just be myself and not give a sh1t and it wouldn't work, I didn't really know how to get to the core, I thought I did, I thought I was, but once I got there I realized that I was doing it all wrong. I was acting like the person that I "thought" I was supposed to be.

    If you want some help I will help you, but this is not a quick fix.

    Step 1) Join a team sport.

    Step 2) Start taking excellent care of your body, diet and exercise.

    Step 3) Keep yourself, your house, and your body clean.

    Step 4) Get clothes that you absolutely love, the kind you would wear if you were the hottest guy in town.

    Step 5) Read a book a week, any book that interests you.

    Step 6) Be completely honest. Do your best to find the positive out of every situation, but be 100% honest with everyone around you - this is where I was farking up the worst, I was trying to be who I thought I was supposed to be
    instead of just being. This step is really scary.

    Step 7) Be loyal to those who care, and let them know it.

    Step 8) Learn how to go into life not hopping for the best, but expecting the best. There is a difference

    Step 9) Dont be afraid to express what makes you unique. Im a good writer - thats my talent, I txt message poetry to friends all the time. I care so much about other people - when I see someone in pain I tend to feel it with them, when I see someone in joy - I can't help but smile. This is what is unique about me and was the biggest factor to my success, and that didnt really show itself until I became completely honest with myself and those around me. Let your special talent shine.



    Get as much Tony Robbins material as you can and listen to all of it.

    Build an incredible match dot com profile, and spend the first 10 dates with the objective of making a really close female friend, not a lover. This will help a lot, and I did this accidently.


    There is an instinct method - I just don't want you doing it until you are completely out of your element and growing.

    I honestly wrote it out and then deleted it from this post.

    This will not work overnight, but you can start improving and loving yourself more today. This is exactly how I got to where I was, and dammit it was hard because men and women thought I was awkward, because I was - because I am very unique and I was trying first to be just normal, and then to be overly outrageous.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 01-10-2013 at 07:28 AM.


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