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Thread: When a girl decides to call your bluff!

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    Default When a girl decides to call your bluff!

    Alright fellas! hows things!

    Gotta a quick question for y'all.

    What are some things you do when a girl calls you bluff in order to maintain alphaness and keep your frame?

    example:

    do you "insert something"?

    not really ^^

    We can no longer be friends! :P

    ok bye! Friendship over!

    for those wondering I met this chick through social circle at a bar last night, at first she as majorly closed off but after a few dhvs and disqualifiers she opened right up and started with the kino (It was on in my eyes). this is a script of our fb convo earlier today.

    so here I am with another a problem in my quest to learn everything! (or an adequate amount :P)

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    Default Re: When a girl decides to call your bluff!

    I've had this happen to me (in a live in person convo)! im no pro, but i faked like i was going away and she grabbed me like she didnt want me to leave. guess it all depends on the rapport you manage to build from the start. i would fire back with a "false assumption" type txt like: "wow i guess youre on of THOSE ...", then watch her start seeking explanation and youre back on!

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    Default Re: When a girl decides to call your bluff!

    Lol, definitely don't take my advice because I'm not an expert at all, but I see a couple ways of handling this:

    1) Just ignore it and move on with the conversation. I think this is the best one. It maintains your alphaness and continues to show interest.

    2) Disqualify her some more. I don't know how you could go about this, but you could say something like, "Ouch, that's a major loss for you." I see at least a million ways that this could backfire. Or use the "false assumption" like callmemister suggests, which will do the same trick.

    3) Depending on rapport, escalate the relationship. Say something along the lines of, "Phew, I was looking for something other than a 'friend' anyways."

    You could also "walk away" like callmemister suggests, but because it's a fb conversation, it won't have the same effect. I'd stay away from this option.

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    Default Re: When a girl decides to call your bluff!

    If you're looking through that frame that "she wants you" then her saying that wouldn't shake you. There are a number of ways to respond to this while keeping your frame. Just depends on where you want to steer it. As long as you shape it that she is just being dramatic then you should be fine. But your main focus is to steer it where you want to. Not focus on her dramatic response to your playful statement.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: When a girl decides to call your bluff!

    Hey guys,

    cheers for the responses.

    Im trying to steer it into an attraction frame/k-close/f-close in the coming weeks before we go our separate ways.
    I dont think it has shaken me that much, just thrown me off the natural come backs etc, hence why i thought I would get clarification on here before doing anything haha!

    I was trying to replicate my attitude that I had when I was at the bar.

    I.e cocky funny with a mix of hidden depth when needed (if that makes sense) as it worked in person (still have the bruise on my arm haha!)

    Not sure where Im actually meant to be going with this tbh. She's messed around with a mate of mine (rugby player ) but he wasn't there that time to out alpha me haha! (any ideas on how to dominate a natural alpha?)

    I guess my attempt was to get her talking and further attraction and actually close for once! (shes heard of my cooking from my mate so she mentioned "I remember you saying that you would like to cook for me! (with me replying with you first!)

    Apologies for the rambling post guys


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