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    Mr. Pink is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default NEED EXPERT she has a settled for a bf and i want her but i have morals.

    I repsect that this is a pua forum and this does have to do with pua but also expert relationship advice. There is a girl. Her name is Grace. I have been talking to her and two of her friends regularly for about two months. i have been playing the game with all of them. I just want her though. she has a bf, from the sounds of it a very loserish bf that is not right for her and she has done the phenomenon of settling.I don't entertain any though of him when we talk. basically i want her but i know what its like having a gf stolen by another man and this is what i was sort of doing and i just stopped and thought about it and im not going to do that. i was sending her mixed signals. she is most likely torn cause i know she is attracted to me. i am also positive her friends talk about me alot. I was thinking what if (should I?) go up to her and tell her i really care about her and i don't want her to be torn decision wise and then close the door tightly and cease all communication. kinda like you dont realize what you have until its gone type of deal. but then she always has him to fall back on anyway. WHAT DO I DO!!?!! any questions for further detail/ any comments/ advice/suggestions/opinion. I would appreciate it soo much you would really be helping me out. It's like loving someone you can't have, knowing you want to save her from her relationship, Its indescribable and whatever it is it hurts. alot!

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    Default Re: NEED EXPERT she has a settled for a bf and i want her but i have morals

    Shutting the door is bad

    You need to decide if you're ok with trying to break it up, or not. That's on you

    If he's not good for her, go for it. The basics of a boyfriend destroyed mean talking him up like he's perfect so SHE is the one to admit he's not and that she's not happy, she needs to bring these to the surface so you're not fighting her

    If he is good for her, then accept your decision and either walk away, or enjoy her company for what it is and leave it there
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: NEED EXPERT she has a settled for a bf and i want her but i have morals

    -Look my friend, bf destroying is not stealing her away u are just showing her u're the better deal.
    -u say u are the better man and that she has attraction but if that was true why doesn't she leave him for u then?
    -U're not a pua so i'm gonna explain this in lemman's terms firstly developpe strong inner beleifs and confidence and become more assirtive (in pua terms work on u're inner game and frame)
    -use this http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...technique.html
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


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