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    Violinist1997 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is this situation salvageable?

    Im fairly new to the game, and i would like some advice. I met this girl, and I screwed up. I can pinpoint what I did wrong. First, I didn't assert myself as the alpha. I negged her a bit and was clearly dominant over her, but not towards the group. Secondly, during the five or so minute conversation, I failed to present myself as a possible romantic partner as much as I should have. Lastly, I appeared as too needy. I added her on Facebook and chatted her a few times. I probably shocked her a bit as I started presenting myself as flirty and playful then instead of in person. I then appeared too needy by chatting her too often and basically seeking validation. I know if I want to manage to get anywhere with her I should freeze her out for a while and then come back completely opposite to how I originally presented myself. But is my situation too broken to fix it? If it isn't, how long should I freeze her out for? I am more than likely going to see her Sunday. If I started now and reintroduced myself then, would that be a decent time, or would that be too short? I would really appreciate it guys, thanks so much.

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    Default Re: Is this situation salvageable?

    Everything is salvageable. Just stop contacting till Sunday

    Come Sunday, pretend none of it every happened
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Violinist1997 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Is this situation salvageable?

    Hey dude, thanks for the reply. So, I just had another problem pop up. She has absolutely zero experience with relationships, so along with my flirting being sudden, she also isn't used to it, so she became even more uncomfortable. She bit my head off a bit, and I chatted on facebook with her for a little bit. I know, more mistakes =/. Anyways, how would you proceed from here? I'm thinking about just abandoning this target. The problem is, I have a lot of mutual friends with her, and if this gets out I'm afraid my reputation will be messed up. Like, if people know how I got shot down and all, and then if I keep on going, my friends may think less of me. What would you do in this situation?


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