Gaming a younger girl...avoiding the rut
I've been talking and hanging out with this girl who is about 8 years younger than me. I had dealt some serious attraction out. She actually invited me out, was contacting me every day, and so on and so forth. We were talking on the phone quite often, and still do. I went through a busy streak where I couldn't answer her calls our texts on command, but I was hanging with another woman and she knew it. Of course this other woman and I were just friends (her car broke down I repaired it for her).
Now I have noticed her replies tend to be one or two word replies, and she will say something else if I don't respond, but the conversations are predictable and boring, and there is almost no point to text every day if those are the conversations we are going to have. I can tell she still likes me a bit, but the attraction is dropping, but she still likes me for various reasons.
I told her we should go out friday, she said "Mabye we will see " which kind of translates to a yes in my opinion.
My plan of action is to simply tell her:
"Look babe, we talk every day, and don't get me wrong, I love and look forward to talking to you, but it should be obvious to both of us this conversation is getting flat out boring and to be honest I'm not much of a text or phone call kind of guy, I just made an exception because you are always so busy, but we need to spend some more time together because you can only convey so much over text message."
That or something similar. I won't know exactly what I'm going to say until I say it, just the main points I want to convey, but I would like some other opinions before I proceed. This is going to either make or break me.
KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple