Firstly, I apologize for the long post, but I really need an experts help.
I've been gaming an HB8 for sometime now. It's been going really well and we have been spending a good amount of time together. I'm always getting her to smile and laugh, through teasing, tickling and etc, but there's a problem.
She's talking to another guy as well. She told me she's not talking to anyone else, but I know she's lying. I've met this guy before, he's shorter than me, but conveys way more confidence than I do. This girl is quite confident herself and I can tell she's attracted to that part of him.
Basically, I'm competing against this guy and she's been bringing up his name often. Like she asked me if she should go with him on a road trip and I just completely ignored her and changed the subject. I don't bring him up or try to put him down because I don't wan to convey jealousy. I try to play it cool, but I would really like to talk to her about it. I've been trying to make her jealous by talking to other girls and texting during our hang time, but I'm not sure if it's the right move.
She's always trying to grab my attention when we're together, but when we're with other people she seeks others attention. It's very confusing.
What can I do to get this girl and blow out my competition? I think I need to build more attraction, but not sure how to do it this far in the game already.
Note: Normally she wants to watch lovey chick flicks with me, lately she's been wanting to watch chick flicks that are about 2 guys and 1 girl. Where the girl is in a fork and has to choose. She keeps recommending these types of movies to me. I think she's hinting something.
I feel like crap every time I think about this guy and her and I want to just find him and beat the crap out of him, but I know that's an immature rookie move. Any PUA expert advice would be much appreciated.