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    Default How do I hook up with a girl I like at a school dance?

    Im okay at doing stuff with random girls, but this is a chick I see everyday and I actually like. So I dont want it to be awkward for the rest of the year if I get rejected.

    First thing to overcome, is how do I start dancing with her? Im FINE with other girls, but dont want to fck up this once. Was thinking if grabbing her hand smoothly and just saying, "Lets go dance"

    Then how do I escalate it from grinding...to making out.

    And if I get rejected in two cases, what can I do. In case of her not even grinding against me. And in case of her not kissing.

    PLEASE RESPOND. ONLY A FEW HOURS TILL DANCE.

    Some IOI's shes given me:
    -Talked to her before going to practice, she thought I was free and asked, "Are you doing anything anytime soon?" While I was talking to her.
    -We catch eye contact and smile a lot.
    -I make her laugh her ass off at almost any encounter.
    -Never flirted in real life, but a few times in texting.
    -Bumped into me the other day right before lunch just waiting for me to say "Lets have lunch together"

    PLEASE HELP...........Cant tell if I've been friendzoned tho, how do I know??We haven't hung out but talk in class a lot.

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    Default Re: How do I hook up with a girl I like at a school dance?

    Then how do I escalate it from grinding...to making out.
    the key with that one is to change the order you are doing it in. instead try going for a slow dance, gaze into her eyes and kiss her. though grinding is fun, most girls do not particularly enjoy it or feel romantic towards guys who "grind on them". if you really like her and don't want to screw things up, don't grind on her.

    btw i might suggest drinking cofea before you go, get hyper and be the life of the dance. don't be afraid to bust some moves on the dancefloor and talk to as many girls (other than her) that you can (a little preselection will work wonders at a high school dance)

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    Default Re: How do I hook up with a girl I like at a school dance?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    the key with that one is to change the order you are doing it in. instead try going for a slow dance, gaze into her eyes and kiss her. though grinding is fun, most girls do not particularly enjoy it or feel romantic towards guys who "grind on them". if you really like her and don't want to screw things up, don't grind on her.

    btw i might suggest drinking cofea before you go, get hyper and be the life of the dance. don't be afraid to bust some moves on the dancefloor and talk to as many girls (other than her) that you can (a little preselection will work wonders at a high school dance)
    Ok but this is a club style dance, so I dont think going slow would work. Yea, also I want to have a few shots of jack so I kill the nervousness and pussy in the pack of my head.

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    Default Re: How do I hook up with a girl I like at a school dance?

    also I want to have a few shots of jack so I kill the nervousness and pussy in the pack of my head.
    noooo! don't drink wisky before your dance. the reason i suggested cafeine is because its a stimulant. you won't be the life of the party if you can't stand up now will you? alcohal is a depresant, more than one or two drinks will murder your game plus you will feel like crap when it wears off (probably before your dance is over) the caffiene will last longer without any negative affects when it wears off. being hyper will aid your game, being drunk will not

    go dance and have a good time whatever you do

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    Default Re: How do I hook up with a girl I like at a school dance?

    Ok but this is a club style dance, so I dont think going slow would work.
    every high school dance i ever went to had at least a few good slow dancing songs. if nothing else you could request your favorite country song (ask the dj) to slow dance with her.

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    Default Re: How do I hook up with a girl I like at a school dance?

    Some harsh truths.

    So why does this hook up have to be at a dance? Sounds like this shouldve been done earlier, but hey better late than never. A dance is a good place for kino. However don't get all riled up over a dance. Sounds like you are waiting for the 'right time' when you should be controlling the circumstances and creating your own all along.

    Sounds like you are developing a case of 'one-itis' over this girl. Don't let yourself get to that point. If you are worried about feeling about being awkward and rejection, don't. It means you are placing her value too high up there above your own. That's when your confidence gets compromised and you don't want that.

    Whether you've been friendzoned or not. Hard to say with the limited amount of info.

    - Talked to her before going to practice, she thought I was free and asked, "Are you doing anything anytime soon?" While I was talking to her.

    Too vague. I had strippers asking me "What are you doing after (I leave the club)?" It doesn't necessarily mean they are hinting they want to go with you. If she asked that I would've followed up with "I'm going somewhere [interesting], want to come?" Her answer will tell you whether she was just making polite conversation.

    -We catch eye contact and smile a lot.

    Again you really need to know how to read body language to be certain. Those are just flirty moments. Does she tilt her head when she looks at you, does she look at your mouth? Those are IOIs.

    - I make her laugh her ass off at almost any encounter.

    Laughter is good but it's not necessarily an IOI. Its a way to a woman's heart but you don't want to be a clown. In college, I have a good friend who constantly makes women laugh. They enjoy hanging out with us because he was fun. But it doesn't mean they were attracted to him. Does she laugh, then stop and then look at you with her head tilted? That's an IOI.

    A gay hairdresser she goes to can make her laugh. If she always shares with you her problems, then yes, chances are you been fzoned.

    -Never flirted in real life, but a few times in texting.

    Need to flirt in real life. Flirting via text is definitely not an IOI. Anyone can hide behind a screen and assume a persona.

    -Bumped into me the other day right before lunch just waiting for me to say "Lets have lunch together"

    At the same time, how do you know its not some lucky coincidence? Especially if its just one time it happened. Wishful thinking? Could you be reading too much into it?

    Assuming you are fzoned, you need to get out of it. And this is what you do.

    Switch from all the 'talk' between you and her to more romantic activities. You need to take her out by herself, then commit to it. Follow through, be on your hot mode, and be unpredictable. Predictability is what lands you in the friendzone after a while.

    You need to find an intimate environment. If you are in Cali like me, the beach is ideal. Lots of skin. Take her out of her comfort zone so she doesn't feel like she is your friend. Instead it is a whole new experience and she can start looking at you through different eyes.

    Make yourself unavailable. But not overly busy. Spread your attention out and diversify so you don't get 'One-itis'

    Couple things you shouldn't do:
    - Do not talk about your attraction or your feelings to her. Don't sound like you are head over heels for her, but do it with subtlty. Meaning, hint, be flirty without being direct. You make her laugh, cool, but time to take a step and add some sexy word play.
    - Don't put her on a pedestal. I repeat ' Don't put her on the pedestal' and you repeat it constantly until you remember it. You are highschool still. Lots of hotter prospects when you get older like in college. Trust me. There are girls that will make you forget her.
    - Don't let her talk about other guys.
    - If things don't always shine your way, don't get frustrated or feel awkward. Go out with other girls. Meet other girls and let her see you out with other girls.

    That's the big picture.

    Happy Hunting.


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