Earlier this week I got LJBFed by a girl I've known since August. She REALLY likes me, but she's not attracted to me. She says she doesn't know why.
I'm very new to most of this PUA stuff, but already I can look back and I can see why. I can see why she really likes me too. I've gone wrong in a lot of ways (e.g. poor kino, poor frame control) but I've gone right a lot too (e.g. I'm naturally cocky funny, tons of social proof). No wonder she's confused and conflicted.
To add further conflict and confusion - and to counteract the LJBF - I have cut off contact. Our only regular contact is through Facebook. I made only short, delayed responses last time she tried to initiate a chat - the day after she LJBFed me - I told her things had to change and I needed some distance, then I cut off the conversation.
She said she would stay away and let me work it out my own way.
Just over 25 hours later she sent a message saying simply:
I miss talking to you.
So, in terms of PUA psychology, what's going on here?