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Thread: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

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    Exclamation Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    Hi i'm new in the scene, I was wondering about sharing my new found knowledge.
    I'm dating this girl we used to be friends, any way her EX which I know and like(we weren't friends ) is having trouble with a girl he likes.

    He told my girl about he's failure to hit on a women he likes.
    I know the ex and my girl are friends, and they had it going off and on for a couple of month's, Not exclusively (they slept with other people since their breakup).

    My girl told me about it, and I feel sorry for the guy he's nice and I really like him as a person

    By the way she haven't told him about us yet, we just changed from friends to lovers.

    Ok let's get to the point, I want to help him by telling my girl what to do (she actually suggested' she can pass my advice as her own).

    should I help Him?

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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    I say you do it just for the practice. See if your dating advice works! In all seriousness, you seem like you want to help, and seems like you know what he should do, so go for it. Your girl may get all impressed that you're the love guru!
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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    also it will make you more alpha, helping another guy get a chick, you can open sets and make ur gf jealous too, just don't leak everything you learn

    on the contrary ur gf might get jealous of her ex - just a warning

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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    This is a unique situation. I say go for it just for the experience. If it does somehow spiral out of control then at least you learn what NOT to do lol.

    Also hyp is right. Don't give away the golden stuff. She'll realize you used the same things on her and may not like it :P
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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    I agree with the posts above, just do me a favor and keep us chronicled on what happens with the situation, I'm curious to see how this plays out.
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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    This reminds me of 40 year old virgin when the black guy is like...

    "From now on your dick is my dick.."
    .-* WWWEEE *-.

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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    I'm not sure what do you mean by "the golden stuff", but any how I'll use the advice you guys gave me and I'll definitely
    Update.

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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    as in don't go into specifics on frame control - dont even call it that, just give him some stuff about being a man but don't use alpha, all the critical stuff we use reword it and filter it down

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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    First UPDATE
    I met my girl today and i tried to raise the subject when she mentioned her EX.
    She didn't feel very comfortable dealing with that, and after talking about it she said that maybe I should talk to him directly.
    I saved my self by laughing about the whole thing, and saying its weird to talk to her EX since we just started dating.
    should I try again? I'm really curious

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    Default Re: Is helping your girl's ex to get a another girl ok?

    This is indeed a unique situation. I would be very careful about how you do things. Like the previous posters have said don't give away too much. This could turn around and bite you in the ass. Meaning he might just get good enough to win your girl back. Don't mention anything about PU to him in case he does a google search and happens to stumble upon this site/thread. Props on even considering helping your girls ex. Most guys don't want to hear two words about their ladies ex's let alone help them pick up other ladies.


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