Hi there! New to the forums but really need some advice on a situation which occured quite recently.
Got in touch with an ex girlfriend recently, who I haven't spoken to in about ten years. Really hit it off over the phone and decided to meet up for drinks.
When we did, it was great and efffortless to keep the fun and converstation flowing. As I had travelled about 100 miles (the distance between us) I had booked a hotel local to the bars we were at. One thing led to another and after many drinks (both of us) we ended up back at my hotel, where we hooked up.
In the morning, her "shield" went up - not disappointment, but possibly awkwardness? She left and caught the train back home and I did the same later. To make sure we were cool, I text her messages through the day asking how her head was and the response was positive with a few smiles and kisses. We kept in touch over Xmas and have continued to do so this year also (via text). However, feel as though this is slipping into Friend territory and need to rectify this.
Have read How to text girls for pointers but would really appreciate some advice. Aware that geography is not my friend but feel this girl is worth the effort long term. Trying to attract after "sealing the deal" - is this possible? Let me know what you guys think.
Appreciate all comments and advice.