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    Default But the other Guy Is Stupid

    So, I was hanging out with a girl I am totally crazy about and this is how it went: Shit Test #1 she was telling me about the guy she just broke up with was stupid. - my response, I changed subject. I was going to agree with her that the guy she just broke up with was stupid. Shit Test #2 She then said (same breath) "I think I'm going to go outta state and spend the upcoming holiday 3 day-weekend with a friend...but he's a player, so I'm not sure." I responded by saying, if you want to go, you should go. Shit Test #3 How come you haven't helped me with that project you said you would? -My response, oh thanks for reminding me I forgot about that.

    So now 3 days later, the dude from outta state is no longer in the picture, she's reposting pics of the ex and her.

    My question is...is this shit test #4 and if so how do I respond? Is she wanting me to remind her she thought the ex was stupid?

    Any advice would be helpful. Thanks.

    JoJo

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    I personally wouldn't respond or show emotion to any of her pictures with her ex, sounds like an attention seeking tool to get back with her ex, a simple "right" or "cool" would suffice

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    I think she probably has friend zoned you dude. She is not shit testing you really, she just doesn't think of you as a potential partner. But I might be wrong, how far have you gone with her?

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    I am concerned about the dreaded friend zone, but at this point something I think something else is going on.

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    She probably got back with her ex dude, or is trying to. This is common, when chicks don't find a suitable replacement they will usually seek the ex again. It's safe and comfortable a lot of the times.

    The fact is she doesn't see you as a potential mate. Friendzone.

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    It's safe and comfortable a lot of the times.
    especially if she's been there before, after the relationship

    GoJojo have you gotten physical with her prior? if you haven't you're in the fz ... on the contrary Fuser, she hasn't mentioned stuff she's done with this guy so id say borderline, unless she's sensed that you're needy around her

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    Yup, how far have things gone between you? Kiss, Fooling around, F close?

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    We have not been physical. I have been placed in the FZ before, this is different and why I am seeking advice. The ex is not a real threat to me, he is just being used by her as a pawn, but I am unsure what her motives are for doing that. She didnt need to try and win him back, she was his total life, that and his $9.75 and hour job.

    OK, I am just asking this to you guys, please do not pounce on me for asking...Could she be so scared that I represent everything she ever wanted in a guy so she is running the other way?I won't chase her, but I don't think she will stay away for too long.

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    she was his total life, that and his $9.75 and hour job.
    quality people genuinely don't give a fqck how much money you make

    Could she be so scared that I represent everything she ever wanted in a guy so she is running the other way?

    if you paint a picture of you and one of her and the entire situation i'm sure we could answer that

    ultimately this won't be resolved without going no contact and learning proper inner and outer game

    as for him being her life, she'll most likely drop anything to get with him (similar situation with my cuz atm but he is the him in this )

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    Default Re: But the other Guy Is Stupid

    This girl is quality, but that is minimum wage here, and she wants someone more ambitious (her words not mine.)

    Ok, here is a clearer picture of what I mean when I ask the question, "Could I represent everything she wants in a guy and now she is scared and running the other way?"

    FB is a strange and quirky platform. This girl posted and open prayer to God seeking: A good Christian family man, who's never been married, who doesn't have kids yet, who likes to travel, makes a good living and can provide for his family. Someone God, who will appreciate my love of singing and dancing and love them as much as I do. And God, can he please be cute!

    OK, that is totally me, yes even the cute part. We have spent hours talking and we like everything pretty much the same, but enough difference so it would never get boring. We joking say we need to have a button or something we can hold up when the other person won't shut their mouth, because we both can talk for hours.

    She said she isn't very romantic, (I call bullsh1t to that) so I have totally poured on the romance...We have talked about how she wants to be proposed to and when. So as a joke, I had a ring box and a wooden button in it. I was in the middle of a college hallway and started acting like I was going to propose...she almost peed her pants, but when she saw a button inside she totally cracked up and thought it was hysterical!! She then looked at me and said, "Just don't propose on Valentine's day...any day except Valentine's Day, then she said, "I love the 4th of July, just so you know."

    With all that said, she has been totally playing hard to get. I'm 20 years older than her and I think that is the problem.

    I hope this added info can help solict the proper advice...and hey if you guys still think I in the FZ, maybe I am, and if I am, I will do anything short of climbing Mt Everest to change that.
    Last edited by GoJoJoNo; 01-15-2013 at 03:21 PM. Reason: typo


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