Re: Reattract - Ask her out.
I'm going to dig in your head a bit....only a little lol.
The thing is that she has already won you over in your mind. But she doesn't know that yet. So the problem is "How do I show her I'm already interested without creeping her out in case she is not interested?"
That is what qualification is for. I have preached about it many times on this forum because it is heavily overlooked. One of the reasons why this is, is because it requires us to have some sort of standards. And as men, who will turn down a pretty blonde with a playboy body? Not many. So you have to develop standards that have to do with her character and qualify her on them. Some times directly, other times indirectly. Some examples:
- "I love a woman who knows how to cook"
- "Why do ALL women like to go out and get trashy drunk?"
- "If you were a little more ambitious, you'd have me on my knees begging for you."
Some of these can convey your interest directly to her, but also displays that you aren't quite won over just yet (even though we both know you would take her if she offered herself lol. And we wouldn't blame you.) This is important because it sets you up as a challenge in her mind and allows you to display interest, but have some hang ups about her.
There's a lot of material on qualification. Check it out and I guarantee that once you get her attracted and you qualify her properly you will have to push her away when she tries to jump on you.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."