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    Default The really controlling woman

    I would like to put the really controlling woman in the category as the liberated lady from my experience. The reason why i do this is because if you have striked up a few conversations with women you will notice that some are liberated in their thinking ( believing that they should keep all options open, test different man of their worthyness). i know what your thinking, all women are like this, No the liberated female does not like create any real attachments for the most part and came sometimes come off as a alpha lady.
    Here is her flaw...a beta man. she needs a beta male who could control and who will give her the constant validation her weak ego needs.

    The problem with this kind of woman is she is hard too please..Therefore when the beta has given her all his attention she will seek a new victim. Btw her beta victim usually also pretends to be alpha and is usually involved in a relationship already....
    Watch out for this girl. The only honest thing about her is leading ppl on.

    Feel free to express any opinions on this topic

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    Default Re: The really controlling woman

    It would be very interesting if you had a story to tie into this. Let us know!
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    Default Re: The really controlling woman

    I think I know what you are getting at. From my experience, I've seen two types.

    There are women out there who are just control freaks usually out of low self-esteem or insecurities. This is usually not a good healthy trait because usually something due to their upbringing hardwired them like this. Two things are going to happen. They are going to end up being single due to failed relationships OR they end up finding some Omega male who is submissive and lets himself get pussywhipped. They won't make good leaders because they don't know how to follow. It's leading to control for the wrong reasons. They usually gravitate towards jobs like cops that put them in an authorative position.

    Then there are women who are independent (career-minded or not). They are not necessarily control freaks. These women don't have to be in a relationship to compensate for anything. If they are looking for a relationship, it's to complement. Oftentimes, they are intelligent. These women usually have higher standards and are looking for a guy to bring something equal to the table.

    I've known both.

    Luckily, I'm smart enough to steer clear of the first unless you want to end up in a dysfunctional arrangement. So no stories there. As soon as I sense this, CHECK PLZ!

    The second alpha female can be attractive. I've known two women like that (one older, one younger) and there is never a dull moment when you are with them. They will challenge you. Sometimes, its too much for most guys to handle. The older one is in sales (sells luxury yachts) and the younger one was going to UC Berkeley majoring in family counseling. The younger one admitted she was a 'dom' alpha female. We were constantly jabbing each other playfully with wit. When I played sh1t games with her, she called me out on it. Would've made her my gf.

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    Default Re: The really controlling woman

    They say the best thing you can do for a woman is inspire her to be a better person simply by being with you. In turn though, it works for us men as well. So to inspire and challenge each other is a great feeling.

    I usually pay attention to what a woman bases her value on. All women love attention (men as well), but if I see one that sees her value as completely based on how much male attention she gets then you begin to notice that they put themselves in situations that cause a lot of drama. Good men fall head over heels while being depreciated, and she will chase the bad boys who abuse her. Even doing things simply to get a reaction because it validates her knowing she still has an affect on you.

    Luckily my current gf is about to get her bachelors so her value is not all based on how much attention she gets lol.
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    Default Re: The really controlling woman

    Both chick sounds hot. How did it go?

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    Default Re: The really controlling woman

    Both chick sounds hot. How did it go?
    Funny thing. Both women were not hot in the looks department. They were fairly above average. Enough that guys hit on them in the bar. However, their personalities were attractive.

    The way it ended? Not the PUA way as I didn't have the skill sets back then. In both cases, I got schooled.

    The older alpha chick (2006) - I originally went out with her younger sister, a former pethouse pet, HB9 cougar, who brought her along on the date (she lives close to me). Ended the night having sex with the PH pet and videotaping it, while the alpha waited in the bar. I realized the next morning, I was attracted to the alpha more. Something about her charm and intelligence. She took intiative of the date, was calm, comfortable, able to improvise on the spot by suggesting something fun to do without looking like a self-entitled gal. Everywhere we went she knew things. I tried to get her number through the PH pet who flew out the next day, but got cockblocked. Lost contact.

    The younger alpha chick (2009) - Had some knowledge of PUA skillz by this time, but I think I was out of my league. She was passionate, savvy, intelligent, knows how to diffuse drama with her words, we never argued, she was like a male PUA in a chick's body and called herself "a nice bitch." She would actually go into bars to test a guy's game and sucker the AFCs into buying her drinks. Walks out without spending a dime. I would try to qualify her, she would reverse qualify me. Sometimes she calls me out, saying "If I said this to you, that would imply X, I know you are trying to trick me." She constantly looks for openings in my game and when I slip and say something stupid, she would "*Sigh* and say, "I don't know why I love you...has to be the body." Biatch negging me and she was only 22 at that time lol. It ended as I saw less of her as she constantly traveled out of country. Our relationship would've been long distance had I pursued. Last I heard from her, she got into trouble for shoplifting with assault. She is a fiery one. Never met another girl who can match up in personality.

    Sorry for lengthy post, but just remininscing, but learned alot from them. In all honesty, I can fess up and say for a moment I saw things from a "woman's POV" and how they would feel when the art of attraction is done right.

    I think the girl who can beat you at your own game is the one you would retire as a PUA for.


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