Am I fool for paying on my GF? How do I f close faster?
youtube ... Why Using Money Or Prostitutes To Get Girls Creates A Cycle Of Diminished Swagger And Self Respect! -
i just watched the above video Rsd tyler..
he is saying that a guy is a "bitch" is he pays for the girl's date.
my question is:
am i spending too much on this girl?
i just got this new girlfriend, named NS. met her thru online dating website.
first date (sunday) right before NYE
second date (wednesday) few days after NYE. i took her out for dinner. first kiss.
3rd date (tuesday) we went shopping for clothes (i bought myself shirts; she came along)
on our 4th date, i got her to sleep overbut we didn't go all the way. since then we've seen eachtoher. she lives very close to me and i've gotten her to sleep over now like 4,5x. ive counted the total face to face interactions we've had and its been like 12 since our first date.
i know she doesnt have a lot cash/wealth but i think i over-spoil her. i bought her a bunch of stuff to make it easier for her to stay here- bathroom stuff (shampoos, conditioner) and groceries (foods that she might like).
a litte more info.. i gamed her strong and learned a lot from my previous dates that i went on with these other girls.
the emotional side is seemingly happening SO FAST... we had a sex talk about a week ago. turns out.. (btw shes 27) she had 1 relationship that was 2.5 yrs, from age 23 to 25 ish. she never had an orgasm too (thought that was important). i told her i know i am 100% clean of STDS but i was going to get a blood test for her without her asking to not make her feel weird. she gave me a big smile and ask. she said she will get one too.
i told her on our 4th date, i told her "i realized you love me" she was in shock. "do you deny it?" she says "i do not confirm and i do not deny it ". i told her " ican tell bc of the way you act around me, the way you look, touch hug/kiss...im telling you. u might not say it in words but i know." she laughed and i told her, "in 1 day im telling you, that u will say u love me." TURNS out.. the next day, early in the morning (less than 24 hrs), she told me she was talking to her friend she said the words "i love him". then she said i was right and then said "i love you." she asked me if i love her. i told her.. when im around you im crazy and i love you, BUT when u r not around im thinking how the hell did this happen so fast.
i really enjoy gaming and sarging HB's but im having so much fun hanging out with her. plus i am very very physically attracted to her. (maybe bc of the dry spell. i got out of a LTR back in aug2012).
my question still stands...
1. am i financially spoiling her?
2. any tips on f-close faster?
im assuming for the f-close - ishould use classic LMR techniques... push n pull.
ps : when i took her out for dinner she pays for tip.
pps: most we did in bed was i got her shirt off. she gave me some hand but she didn't want bc she said "i need to 'wax' first".