Re: What's an IOI and what's not?
As a man who's in an LTR I don't like the idea of men chasing taken women. It's annoying. But Lockdown is right. A bf can be an obstacle, but if he isn't doing his job she will stray. Maybe even want to leave him for you. Although I wouldn't recommend it. Rarely do those types of relationships become healthy.
A simple way to test attraction is a compliance test. This is more of a guideline rather than a rule. But just find out how far is she willing to go for you. If she is willing to drive an hour to see you, clean your room, make you a sandwich, or take out the trash it can be a good sign. Lol not the best examples, but I hope you get the idea.
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