So I've been seeing this girl in spurts for about 2 months now, but more and more recently. I have already had sex with this girl and lots of it, and its been great. She comes on strong when we are together, but Im no much of a texter, I only call to set up dates and to talk for a minimal amount of time.
The other night we were hanging out, and this girl is always all over me. Lots of kino, lots of PDA... Im okay with this sort of thing, and I 'm really good at keeping the flirting fun and the teasing is great. And this girl is all like I want to cook you dinner, and I really like you and little things like that. But sometimes she'll say "youre mean" and just be "be sweet". Its hard to gauge what she means by that because she always comes on to me, and doesnt seem affected by any of my witty banter, it could be flirting from her part.
With that being said, is that she doesn't really initiate contact, only sometimes will she send a text but its never to hang out, usually her being cute or something in that manner. After we hung out on Tuesday night, were in the car and shes like hey so Im free to hang out Thursday or Sunday in which she wants to cook me dinner one of these nights, she even mentioned that she was available that night as well but I was unavilable. Shes all like I cant hang out Saturday because its a friends bday party and Friday she is going to a concert. So last night after I got home from having dinner with another lady, I called her she didnt answer, she called me back while I was in the shower and then left a little text that read "troublemaker", I called her back but no answer, it was pretty late in the evening and these texts and calls were 30 mins apart.
So my question being, how do yall approach woman that come on strong?? I dont mind talking to her each day but I usually dont since I dont text and I work through the day. Another question is how do I escalate into "some more sexual text messages" since I dont text anways, I feel that Im just a better face to face communicator....
Also, I doubt Im the only guy as shes not the only girl but its hard to read. Yes, there is attraction and their is potential for LTR but in some cases it seems like there is a lot of coming on strong from her, then pulling back, this is never the case when we hang out. Only when we arent together.