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    astonaidan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Intimidated by girls achievements

    Well the thing is, there's this girl who is my lecturer in a access course to University
    I get plenty of IOI's from her but since shes my lecturer she was off limits till I sat her exam
    Now that thats past, I find myself seriously intimidated by what shes achieved, seeing as Im currently getting back into education after travelling
    Any tips on how to get over this appreciated

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    Default Re: Intimidated by girls achievements

    It's not her, it's you

    Insecure people get jealous or intimidated by others achievements, secure people congratulate them and share their joy because her success does not limit yours. Know what you are and what you can achieve and be happy for her and where she's gotten

    Beyond that, treat her like you would any other girl you wish to pursue

    She may have her personal life together, but that doesn't mean she's not in the same place romantically as any other girl
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Intimidated by girls achievements

    Yea man. You have to tweak your mindset first. By hesitating and letting yourself get intimidated, subconsciously what it boiled down to is you saying "I'm not good enough for her." Well, guess what? You just defeated yourself.

    RB said it best - romantically, she's in the same place as any other girl. She may even have her own insecurities and somewhere out there, someone is sick of her.

    One of the targets I'm working on is an up and coming HB9 minor celebrity in Hollywood who has been tied to an A-list big name actor (Tom Cruise level). In her network, she knows a handful of high profile successful people, actors, musicians with most of the guys probably making a move on her confident only because of their status and wealth.

    I consider myself as a minor league player, but you think I'm going to let that sh1t scare me? Maybe to 99% of the AFCs out there who can't approach her, but not to a trained and skilled PUA with gusto. If I succeed, you will see it in a field report. If I fail, I look back, shrug it off and learn from my mistakes. At least I went for the best.

    So you need to adopt that same mindset. If you get burned, you can honestly say at least you got burned by the best. You won't feel the sting as bad as say if you get burned by a DUFF (Designated Ugly Fat Friend), then yea, ouch. Nothing worst than a DUFF blowing you out or another girl stealing your girlfriend.


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