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Thread: When theyre having a bad day!

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    Default When theyre having a bad day!

    Sup fellas,

    been a while since I posted so I thought I would pose a question

    So I met this chick via social group etc and things went smoothly, Kino IOIs the lot. she gave me her number and facebook for further contact.

    A bit of background is that shes a technician in a lab and is from Germany (she is leaving at the end of the month) so naturally Im trying to close before then.

    So, we've been chatting on FB and via txt etc and I shot her a text last night to see if she fancied some food or a drink as I was out with our mutual friends.

    She replied with she cant as "shes dead from this ducking day. sorrrrryyy"

    I didnt bother replying until today with " Ducking? too many ducks in the lab? :P"

    to which she responded " aaaah yeah fucking day. and my fucking phone does net know the fucking word ^^"

    so I ask if she had a bad day and she replies again with " no a fucking day and this is not better. have to go on with work. see you"

    SO my thoughts were a) she legitimately is having a bad day or B) I fucked up haha!

    Anyone got any advice as to which it may be? and ways or possibly cheering it up? etc

    ISALEEM

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    Default Re: When theyre having a bad day!

    I would go for a) and normally advise you to wait a little till you contact her again, but if she is leaving at the end of the month time is short. And things might be quite hectic for her before her departure. Don't let her notice any neediness.

    Anyway to get her curiosity I would write to her in German. When you come up with what you would like to write PM me and I will translate it for you to German.
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    Default Re: When theyre having a bad day!

    I agree with XM man... I use that on foreign women all the time, once it goes text game / Facebook msg game. I basically say something funny, but translate the english to whatever language on Google Translate. And if she responds in German, simply translate the German to english in google translate. It works for a number of reasons... 1) most guys he meets in America do not speak german, and they do not use this technique, 2) it's cute, that all of a sudden you are speaking the languague and it catches her by surprise (emotional response), and 3) her english is clearl not great, and sometimes foregin women get frustrated that they can't say exactly how thy are feeling in english... so this will help.
    I agree with XM on the waiting a bit part, but not too long, since she is leaving soon.
    Good luck bro!
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    Default Re: When theyre having a bad day!

    Quote Originally Posted by blazeboy View Post
    I agree with XM man... I use that on foreign women all the time, once it goes text game / Facebook msg game. I basically say something funny, but translate the english to whatever language on Google Translate. And if she responds in German, simply translate the German to english in google translate. It works for a number of reasons... 1) most guys he meets in America do not speak german, and they do not use this technique, 2) it's cute, that all of a sudden you are speaking the languague and it catches her by surprise (emotional response), and 3) her english is clearl not great, and sometimes foregin women get frustrated that they can't say exactly how thy are feeling in english... so this will help.
    I agree with XM on the waiting a bit part, but not too long, since she is leaving soon.
    Good luck bro!
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    Default Re: When theyre having a bad day!

    Cool guys!

    Appreciate the advice!

    Il contact her tomorrow or the day after with some german.

    Would you guys ask whats wrong? or just pass that over and be as you normally would be?

    As a social group we are probably going to be hitting a few pubs together on the 25th so I will be seeing her again at some point. Any idea what I should be doing to attempt a close? I think that I will struggle to be alone with her and we may end up in a club (in which my game sucks) so any ideas?

    I was thinking of running style 5 lies for fun just to see her response and maybe the 5 kisses in order to at least k-close. Anything you would suggest?


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