For the people who read my previous post it's about the same person (yep it's been a longtime for me but this girl has caught me in that good old male obsession , which we all know is a hard situation to play good game).
Now my question is how often should I start texting or chating with her and what should be my reason to text? She did the first texting but after that I had to initiate everything. She always texted (except onetime) me back immediatly and reply's with things to keep the conversation going and IOI's, but I don't feel good about having to start the conversation. I always leave atleast 6-10 days between me starting a conversation not to come over obsessed. But I don't think I should give her this much of my attention based on her investment, I know if she was a girl I was not obsessed about I wouldn't give her this attention.
And secondly if I do start initiating conversation what should it be abouth? At the moment I try to pretend it's kinda random and she's accidently the most interesting person in my chat (which I now realize that shouldn't be the underlying message) or I'll ask her to do favours for me.