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    Shadowcomplex is offline PUA in Training
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    Default should I act as if Im pissed off or like everything is normal

    Ok where do I start, I suppose I just need to vent here but I'm quite pissed off with a girl I work with because today I asked her if she wouldnt mind submitting a performance related feedback form to my supervisor for my impending annual review however she has rejected me, I am quite shocked and upset about this because I have helped her so much in the last few months, a few months back she started in an area where I have quite a bit of expertise, alot of this work involves coming in out of hours and being on call, when she started in this area she was quite friendly with me and I have to admit I developed a bit of a crush on her, I told her she could call me anytime with any queries she may have had when she was called in which included my time off, this is something she took full advantage of and I was happy to help, however in recent weeks as she has become more experienced I have noticed she has become more and more distant, however even with that I still didn't expect her to to turn me down for the feedback form, I really feel like I have been used here or am I overreacting, I feel like I have been used somewhat

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    Default Re: should I act as if Im pissed off or like everything is normal

    Just stop helping her if she's being such a b1tch and act normal. Getting mad and all won't get you anywhere. Next time she wants your help, decline. If she asks why, answer truthfully. You helped her out a ton of times and she wouldn't even take five minutes to fill in a performance feedback form. She's the one at wrong here.

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    Shadowcomplex is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: should I act as if Im pissed off or like everything is normal

    the thing is im not fully sure if she is serious yet,I made the request by email and first she said nope, a minute later she replied again saying nope because shes such an angry bitch

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    Default Re: should I act as if Im pissed off or like everything is normal

    Maybe you just court her on a bad day, if she is serious then f*ck her. Don't let get to you, your an Alfa male remember this sh*t don't faze you. Like Virgil said don't do her anymore favours its swings and roundabouts. Only help her if she help you so in a way your rewarding her for helping you.
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