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    qboy122 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Did I mess up? How should I fix?

    Hey what's up guys so On friday I went out to the city with my boys and one of them ended up talking to this blonde chick so i decided to talk to her cute friend. I convinced them to come with us to another bar and the girl I was talking to seemed like she had some interest in me and I pulled the nonchalant cool guy thing, not trying to be all over her and needy. We all got pretty drunk and it got to the point where she was like hugging me and all over me and started to hold my hand for the rest of the night wherever we went. I didn't kiss-close her like a moron because for some reason I sensed that she wasn't the type of girl to that that with a random guy. So she gave me her number and she told me to add her on facebook. I didn't text her until today because I went to Atlantic City for my bday on Saturday, which I had a blast and hooked up with this Jersey girl. So this is how the convo went"

    Me: Hey its Dave from Friday night...how you been

    Her: Hey! Im good! How was AC? Im in the Lower east side right now what are you up to?

    Me: Ac was crazy of course...drank a lot and slept like 4 hours lol..im doing grad school work right now cuz i got stuff due by midnight tonight...what u doing in LES?

    Her: We are at this bar Boss Tweeds

    Me: Oh nice I haven't been there in ages...you want to do something this weekend?

    Now after my last text she hasn't responded. Granted she is busy and at a bar with her friends probably drunk off her ass but I'm a little concerned if she is ever going to text me back(which I hate feeling).My plan was to wait it out until she finally does text me hopefully tomorrow or I will text her tomorrow night some random shit (obviously NOT saying to her "why havent you answered" cuz that will make me look like way too needy). Do you guys think this plan is fine or should I do something else. The girl is cute as hell and we had a lot of fun friday so i figured she would want to do something with me again. Chase Amante speaks of being persistent when girls dont text back but to be cool about it and non-chalant. I have heard other people say to just wait it out a couple of days then texting her to make it look like you are valuable and whatever.

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    Default Re: Did I mess up? How should I fix?

    Seems like you made a good impression at the bar where you met, sounds like you should have k-closed. As for the texting i never text number for the first time on weekends especially at night cause shes probably to busy to text. But if she doesnt reply i would just try again later in the week. hope this helped

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    Default Re: Did I mess up? How should I fix?

    you gave her all the cards when you asked her , instead you should've said lets go to xyz or were going to xyz come with, take charge lad and stop being a p_ssy !!!

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    Default Re: Did I mess up? How should I fix?

    "You want to do something this weekend?"
    Common beta mistake discussed in many previous threads. Asking a girl rather than telling. Should've been.

    The alpha way: "Oh nice, I haven't been there in ages." End your part.

    Next time re-frame yourself, text her and keep it funny: "Let's go to a high energy environment, a place with crowds of people so we can exclusively talk with each other. I'm checking out [a different bar] next Saturday. Haven't been there in ages."

    Until then, do a freeze out on her. Wait until she texts you. Yes, be cool, nonchalant, and look unaffected as if you have other "options" and make sure you demonstrate higher value on your time (if you manage to secure a date).

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    Default Re: Did I mess up? How should I fix?

    Thanks guys appreciate the info..I'm a moron cuz I took the lead on friday and said lets go to another bar and without hesitation she said yes so I really dont know why I went beta asking if she wanted to do something this weekend. Clearly i was not thinking correctly.


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