Re: how to disarm a girls huge ego
Go up to her and introduce yourself. When you shake her hand, pull back slowly and say "Oh.....you're hands are sweaty....can I get you a drink?" The key thing here is to change the subject IMMEDIATELY after you deliver the neg. Otherwise she will feel challenged to respond to it and will blow you out of the water and destroy your frame. So make sure to NOT wait for her to react to it and change the subject to something unrelated. If she brings it up afterwards, just treat her like she is being sensitive and is stuck in the past for not letting things go. Good luck.
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