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    Default Opened by girl - lipstick on neck

    Hi guys,
    need a little help here with figureing out what should I have done but didn't... you know, beginner's mistakes.

    I was in a club, saturday night. Club was packed and I was going for the bar for a drink (my mistake nr 1 - I was not sober). The music was loud in the club but near the bar it was a little bit quieter, so conversation was possible without effort.
    I see a spot opening on the packed bar and got there.
    Right nere a cute young girl in her 20s. Maybe she was a 8? She was part of a mixed set of 3. Didn't figure out the set's connections as I was not very careful with the observation. Looking back I would say she was single, or at least lonely and bored. She was leaning on the bar, turned away from her friends, who were leaning back and having a conversation she was not part of.
    As I leaned over the bar to order my drink, she openes me "hey, you've got lipstick on the neck, you should wipe it off". Yes, I had lipstick on my neck, but that's an other story.
    As I was not sober at all, I just blocked and only said "thanks but I like it this way". And that was it.

    So, based on the facts: what would've been a good way to continue her opening?

    PS: this is my first post and as you already understood well, yes, I'm very new to the community

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    Default Re: Opened by girl - lipstick on neck

    First of all, welcome! Glad you have joined the forum. Great place to learn and exchange ideas.

    As for your situation, you could have done a lot with the lipstick thing. That is a major DHV (demonstration of higher value), especially if you looked genuinely surprised that the lipstick got there. You could have just kept talking about that. A funny story perhaps. Something like, oh shit are you serious? Oh i know what happened... there was this bachelorette party and they were choosing the perfect guy to get the bacherette to kiss. I didn't realize she left a mark. This gets her curious... and she possibly says, "funny story. what makes you the perfect guy? " etc etc... and kept the conversation flowing. Or, i tend to be a direct guy. I would have said, damn, the girls are wild tonight, huh? asked her where the lipstick is, and wiped it in front of her. Then I would have said, " you look really bored... tell me about it..." i have used this line many many times when i see a woman in exactly the situation you described. if they seem genuinely bored, chances are they are, and when you say, " you look really bored, with a half joking smile" it produces a reaction.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Default Re: Opened by girl - lipstick on neck

    Lol I had this happen once, I didn't notice the lipstick there and I was like 'yeah I got mobbed by women earlier, happens a lot when your as pretty as me' she laughed and we got chatting......was a good night

    Linking x


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