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Thread: Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

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    Default Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

    Ok, so this girl I k closed her in a club one night and then got her number, the k close was virtually instant, she grabbed my arse and went to walk off so I pulled her back and was like 'u can't just grab and leave ya know' and then kissed her. Now that was a while back and she's flaked on me a few times, generally my text game is pretty good so I don't think it's that. Also she asked me to go meet her in a bar last night but u couldn't cus I was busy.
    Ok so background done.
    I'm chatting to her today and we were flirting and dirty pictures came up in conversation on fb chat. She said she had some and then justified saying it was just so she could see what her Ann summers outfit was like. So I didn't ask for it or anything but then I said

    Me:'I never know when to believe you, cus from my experience your all talk no action' (reference to the flaking).
    Her:' really?' (attaches photo of her in Ann summers lingerie)

    Now theres no face in the pic but I know it's her from the tattoo on her hip. Basically I don't understand why she flakes and then sends this. Probably just a cocktease but how would you guys counter this and get her to come out? Or even just get her back so to speak, make her want it as much as I do right now :L

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    Default Re: Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

    In my experience with women like this, she is just teasing you and using you for validation/fun. I don't particularly know how to handle the situation to actually get her though, generally when they are like this I just ignore them/loose their number. I don't have time in my life to deal with that kind of crap, and you shouldn't either.
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    Default Re: Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

    Tbh I had given up on actually getting her to come out, I only speak to her to practise text game or if I'm bored :L but after the pic I would loveee to fuck her, didn't realise how good a body she had :L but yeah I normally ignore them as well but thought I'd give it a go if anyone had any ideas?

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    Default Re: Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

    Dont act too excited about the pic. As in, dont act like any other guy who would be all "oh your hot." Try some strong negging (your comment before the pic was sent was A+).

    Basically, notice what happened... you negged her and then she sent the pic. She needs more of that.

    Follow the line that she is all talk. Pretend like you are not interested with pics (because pics can look better than real life)... and u get those from other girls all the time. Tell her you think she is leading you on. I have used c0cktease on a girl (playfully) once who acted similar (basically a CT is all talk anyway). Tell her she needs to impress you with her personality and in person. Escalate while feigning disinterest while on the date.

    Lmk if this helped u.
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    Default Re: Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

    I completely agree with the strong negging.

    My personal response would be completely dismissive to the picture. Something along the lines of, "I knew you were all talk. I've seen dirtier in a Sears catalog."

    But yea, neg her.

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    Default Re: Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

    I'm currently dealing with someone exactly like this. At first she was chasing me like crazy, everywhere I was at she was there. I wasn't on point with my game so I looked rather needy. She quickly noticed and backed off. Mid-ways I realized and backed off aswell, I hung out with her a couple of times. Funny thing is she still is everywhere I hang out at.

    I'm trying to figure this out myself, but take this as info from my point of view. In her eyes I'm this very nice but good looking guy it dulled it out even more by chasing her. I haven't really tried to neg her, but I still toss a smile up in her face, keeping the interaction going. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

    Just an update lads, I didn't speak to her much after this as I was going out clubbing, she was at the club, I saw her a couple of times gave her a quick kiss and walked off, she saw me with girls a lot and the t me at the end of the night asking to meet me, so I went and met her....took her home a f closed her. Problem solved, cheers for the help
    P.s. she was crazy in bed

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    Default Re: Flirts like crazy but flakes a lot, then sends dirty pic?

    Her type usually is lol!

    See? You didnt even need our help

    Trust your training next time man! Glad to hear it worked out
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