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    Red face Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    Hey guys, Banko here. Haven't really posted in a while. Got to a point in my time where I was comfortable without pick up because I was on a roll haha and I wanted to calm that down and focus on finding a job in my career field. But now I'm back and ready for the ladies again. This one in particular is a very, very beautiful girl, easily a HB9 (or close to it). She's easy going, and popular. I'm flabbergasted as to why she doesn't have a guy yet but hey. The only flaw is that she talks with a lisp and she has a strange voice which my friends like to joke on but forget them. They're idiots. Anyway the part of weird about with this girl is I figure she's too good for me...First met her on Halloween last year, and that very same night I F-closed a HB8 that night (who kept calling me Rick Ross because I have a humongous curly beard, and I'm African American lol ) who I didn't know at a friends house (my friends live in a 4 bedroom apartment). She was in the living room at the time chilln and I'm well aware that she knew what happened between me and HB8. Skip to Dec, I get her number at a show our local Hardcore bands play at. And in Jan I invited her to play Call of Duty at my place. Well I picked her up last night and she's really good at Call of Duty actually lol. Better than my roommate but anyway. Got her in my room to sign a wall I have my friends write on. I wanted to make a move, could have. Usually I'm quite aggressive but for some reason I got that "she's not that type of girl, take it slow vibe". She seems too good for me . She saids she can't get tattoos because her mother won't let her and she can't do alot of things because her mother is very strict. She doesn't even drink. She's not a slut like most of the girls in this college town (which is in the top 20 for partying colleges in US). And she's a little insecure because of her voice which I don't mind...I wanna hang out with her again, probably cook for her lol if I had the money and the resources I would make her a lobster diner, yeah that would do it lol. But I don't wanna get too attached or get her too attached. I'm a guy that gets drunk with his friends, throw parties, love the ladies, hard to keep just one, occasionally I have to beat a guy up because I'm security for the Hardcore rock shows, practice MMA and I used to be known for being a jerk in my past which I'm changing. And I had made my lifestyle more interesting due to pick up. Which I learn to better myself, while still respecting women and friends. And like I said I love the ladies, but this one I really thinks she's cool...Sorry for the long post if anyone has read this but what should I do? We're having a party Sat and I wanna invite her, but I figure I'll be drunk and she won't and I was planning on getting her in bed Sat but idk. Should I just chill and take it easy, see how the days go? Take her on a date? Or take it up a notch, because who knows she might be naughtier than I though. Suggestions and help gladly appreciated guys!!

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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    im not even gonna take the time to read this because replying to the title will be enough considering every afc thinks that his backstory somehow makes the outcome different but heres the news for ya. if your asking yourself that, she is way too good for you. do you know how many girls are too good for me? none. whats the difference between you and me? not a damn thing other than that your probably better off education wise, job wise, and just about every other wise you can think of with the exception of mentality wise. stop wasting your time wondering if your good enough for her. its doing nothing but sending you in the wrong direction
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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    after reading this now, i see my initial diagnosis was right, and i just wanna drop some more knowledge on ya.

    1. though you might not be right for each other in the long run, she isnt too good for you and anyways the long run isnt what your looking for.

    2. dont invite her saturday. my rule number four: never mix alcohol with women. four drinks maximum when sarging.

    although a couple drinks works well for approach anxiety, its really hard to run damage control on your alcohol consumption while already working on the extremely difficult task of pulling, esp pulling a good girl like you are attempting to.

    3. make your intentions clear with her. even though it may ruin your chances, rule of being a pua is to always leave the girl better off than she was before you met her. thats impossible when she thinks shes gonna be in a relationship with you.
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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    Quote Originally Posted by daltonbrayall View Post
    im not even gonna take the time to read this because replying to the title will be enough considering every afc thinks that his backstory somehow makes the outcome different but heres the news for ya. if your asking yourself that, she is way too good for you. do you know how many girls are too good for me? none. whats the difference between you and me? not a damn thing other than that your probably better off education wise, job wise, and just about every other wise you can think of with the exception of mentality wise. stop wasting your time wondering if your good enough for her. its doing nothing but sending you in the wrong direction
    Amen!


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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    i wouldnt classify that as a shit test because its not really something she has any control over. and your pet rock ran away bro? hahahaha almost didnt catch that
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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    Don't worry, I caught it. It's not going anywhere.


    Anyway, it's a sh1t test because even though she has no control over it, it's there to throw you off. Think about it - it IS intimidating. It can mess with your game, get you nervous, get you all beta, and she'll see it. Girls aren't dumb - they know when they have something that'll hold you buy the balls. She's gonna say, "This chump is intimidated by my looks/status/achievements/etc...just like the rest of them."

    You don't let sh1t tests, whatever they mat be, phase you. Ever.
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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    its not there for the purpose of throwing you off though. those things themselves arent intimidaing, its your perception, or rather societies perception of these things. by your logic, a girl can be shit testing every afc in the room because to an afc, shes intimidating no matter what her social standing. afc's get over their intimidation of this in the same way that i no longer am intimidated by any one of the three things youve mentioned. ( only thing im slightly intimidated by is girls with natural black hair, dont ask why) but now anything i am or once was intimidated by is now an encouragement.

    however, a shit test is completely different because i still get them from every girl i game.
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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    I see what you're saying, but that's the difference between a PUA and an AFC. For most starting out, almost everything can throw them off. Those who've been in it for a while have a lot less to worry about.

    The only thing that throws me off nowadays is achievements. I'm a premed student...sort of (blame orgo for the doubts). I'm gaming a girl who's a shoe in for every med school in NYC. She looks great, but that doesn't phase me because looks no longer intimidate me in that sense. Redheads are my weakness, though.

    Anyway, if it can throw you off, it's a sh1t test. Maybe I'm wrong, but if you look at everything that can ruin your chances with a girl as a sh1t test, you'll have an easier time adjusting to PUA. Getting into a mindset where you overcome challenges all the time ceases to make them challenges in the long run.
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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    okay your onto something in that last paragraph there. i like that. but make sure you distinguish the difference between it being a learning mechanism and an actual shit test
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    Default Re: Real Nice Girl, Too Good for Me Perhaps?

    Hm..you have a point. I've been using it a little too loosely. As long as we're on the same page
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