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    Default how to get girls outside the club(bus stop, mall, cafes)

    Hello there everyone,

    I am a newbie to this so called "seduction community". i had finished reading The Game-Neil Strauss and Mystery Method. however i cant seem to get what i want. what i truly desire is the ability to pick up girls at public areas, not just clubs. i wanna pick up girls at totally random places(bus stop, malls, bookshop etc). can someone please tell me the techniques that i should use if i wanna pick up girls at these kind of places?

    my second question is regarding body language. how can i convey interest by merely showing body language?is it even possible?for example, im inside the bus and i see a cute girl entering the bus. shes a few meters away from me and she does not look like shes in the mood for a chat. how do i approach her?

    thanks for the help guys

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    Default Re: how to get girls outside the club(bus stop, mall, cafes)

    Yes, you can pick up women anywhere. At any time. If you want to do so, you might want to consider direct game. It's the complete opposite of the mystery method, but generally seen as more effective during the daytime.

    Good direct gurus: Sasha Daygame (youtube), David X and Badboy (not the badboy system from that link, that's generated automatically).

    Of course you can show interest using body language! Look at her with a smile, wink at her or whatever. It'll be useless without approaching them though, and some women will be unresponsive unless you approach them. Just using body language to gauge a stranger's interest isn't going to cut it. You have to talk to them.

    If a girl doesn't seem like she's in the mood for a chat.... well, fark that. Maybe she is. You can't read her mind. Few people enter the bus with a big smile on their face. Perhaps she's had a rough day and a man approaching her would be its highlight.

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    Default Re: how to get girls outside the club(bus stop, mall, cafes)

    1. Usually people have stuff to do during the day – unlike at a bar, where she can spend hours with you. Good Day Game approaches usually lead to phone numbers + dates as opposed to going straight to the bedroom.

    2. Forget almost everything you know about touching and the . Being “touchy” and escalating is GREAT at a bar or club. During the day, in public, in bright light, it can seem creepy. Stop at “social touch” and save the rest for your date.

    3. Try “going direct.” She knows you’re hitting on her anyway – people don’t approach random strangers during the day unless they want something – so why not get the credit for having confidence? In you can see Jeremy Soul approach a woman on the street with “I’m Jeremy... you have an adorable look to you,” and then start some quick storytelling to capture her attention.

    4. High-energy are often out of place during the day. They’re also unnecessary. At a cafe, you’re not competing with a million flashing lights, club music, and millions of other guys. So, tone everything down a few notches.

    5. Most of the time, you’re not going to have a wingman or alcohol in Day Game to help “push” you to approach. If you have reward yourself for every time you approach without hesitating. This is how you build habits and “muscle memory.”

    6. Smile – it’s even more important in the daytime. At a club, the guy who doesn’t smile and approaches her is nervous. On a street corner, the guy who doesn’t smile and approaches makes HER nervous.

    7. Having good phone and text game is CRUCIAL if you wan
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