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    Default wierd cold approach phenomenon

    I took a long break from doing cold approaches at bars but after several months i finally went back out and had a lot of success but then after the first two weeks I couldnt produce the same results. This seems to happen every time i take a break i get back in, have instant success then crash and burn. Any theories or has anyone else experienced this?
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    Default Re: wierd cold approach phenomenon

    Very strange indeed. I've had similar issues not in PUA, but other skills or hobbies. For example I do jiu jitsu and something works, i burn, i take a break, it works, then i burn. not sure why that happens. Probably means you should just be more consistent with what's working.
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    Default Re: wierd cold approach phenomenon

    Definitely!!
    Consistency is the key!

    Your social "muscle" is just like anything else.
    When you stop working it regularly, it will atrophy.


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