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    Nunyabizniss is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Why would she continue flirting, but ignore my text messages and calls?

    I've had this woman as a friend, and nothing more than that, for most of my life. Recently we started flirting with each other and we both admitted that we've been attracted to each other for a while. Things seemed to be going great for a while. I don't think either one of us was overly clingy, we had a few dates, would talk on the phone a few times a week, and would text pretty much every day. She would start the text conversation just as much as I would. And she would call me just as often as I called her. We live a few hours apart right now, so meeting in person is kind of tough, but not impossible.

    This went on for a few weeks, then suddenly, everything just stopped. I sent a text and got no reply for a few days. I tried calling her once and it went to voicemail, so I left a message but got no reply. During the week I sent two more texts, with no reply. So I waited a week and a half before sending another one, which I got no reply to either.

    During all of this, she is still doing some heavy flirting with me on facebook. I updated my profile picture and she commented on it, saying, "Very sexy!! Looking great as always! " The next day she updated her profile picture, so I commented, "You look amazing, as always!" She replied to that comment saying, "Thanks babe, hearing that from you makes me smile!"

    To me, it seems as if she's still attracted, but the completely ignoring me, except on facebook, has me all confused. Is she playing me? Confused or scared maybe? Or is she just impossible to figure out? And what should my next move be? Should I still send her random texts now and then to see if I get a reply, or cut off all communication with her?

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    Default Re: Why would she continue flirting, but ignore my text messages and calls?

    So first of all, make sure she didn't lose her phone or change her number or something. I would FB message her and be like, hey, i texted you info about this party (you fill in the blank), or event that she would be interested in, but not sure if you got it. See what she says. See if she responds to a FB message. It is strange that she doesn't respond on text but is the same on FB.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    Nunyabizniss is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Why would she continue flirting, but ignore my text messages and calls?

    I thought the same thing, but all her facebook statuses are done by mobile, so I know she still has her phone. This situation has gotten me all confused, since it doesn't make any sense as far as I can tell. I have thought about sending her a message through facebook basically asking why she's been ignoring me, but I'm not sure that's a good idea. I'll probably just let it play itself out and see what happens.

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    Default Re: Why would she continue flirting, but ignore my text messages and calls?

    she is not flirting. she is just being nice but she does not know how to tel you she does not want to do anything more....dont ever ask why they are ignoring you - just keep things nice.

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    Default Re: Why would she continue flirting, but ignore my text messages and calls?

    Did you kiss her? Did you fuck her? No, right?
    That's why it stopped. You took too long. You were a pussy, not confident. She lost her attraction to you and now you're an orbiter.


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