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Thread: What's an alpha way to move on?

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    Default What's an alpha way to move on?

    So on Christmas day, I noticed someone cute looking at my online profile, and suggested we go for coffee. She agreed, and we were to set plans when we were both back in town. I kept messaging brief because I want to do more in-person stuff. Trying to get together has been a pain. We finally had a time and place set for last Friday morning. A half-hour before, she mailed to say she lost my phone number and was called into work and had to cancel. I probably replied too fast, but I was thinking I should let her know I got the message. I reminded her of my number and said I could reschedule. I never got a reply.

    At this point, it's just been too damned hard, and she's not THAT amazing, so I am happy to walk away. I wondered what the PUA reaction to this would be - for MY would-be-alpha soul, is it better to just not try further, or to send a message that says I deserve better and am off to find it?

    Thanks, R

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    Default Re: What's an alpha way to move on?

    I'm interested in this answer too because usually I just stop responding. But I would like a line that gives me a second chance
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    Default Re: What's an alpha way to move on?

    So a few things. Let's focus not necessarily on the last few events but the beginning. So sounds like she was interested in you in the beginning. You wrote there were brief messages in between, but how were those conversations. Waiting from xmas until everyone gets back is a long time for anything to fizzle, especially if it wasn't deep to begin with. In a situation like this it's important to run good text game and escalate over text. This will help also when you actually meet up. So were you doing that enough and in the right way?
    Because I think if you did do it the right way, she would have been on the hook. So either she would not have flaked, or if she flaked for a good reason, she would have been the one to reschedule with you and apologize.
    So my view is something went south before the last time. But regardless, she was very rude for flaking. She should have been more apologetic and rescheudle. In a situation like this, I would just let her know. Not in a bitter jilted sort of way... but i would say, "Hey listen, sorry about your work thing, but I took time off to meet you, and it's not the nicest thing to do this. You are going to make this up to me and it's going to be your treat!" This has worked for me 1/3 times. Good luck!
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    Default Re: What's an alpha way to move on?

    Yup, w-a-a-y too much time has elapsed by now. I was not building via e-mails and hadn't ever texted her, as I was focusing on the in-person thing. Oh well, no surprise there was no hook. I'll try your style of message blazeboy, thanks - the best news is that unlike the woman I posted about first here, I will not find it hard if nothing happens (hella progress for me, there :-)

    Rob

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    Post Re: What's an alpha way to move on?

    I know this is a bit a while back.but if you break like that and they liked you as evident in this post start creating the attraction from ground up.text or phone game head for the meet up.


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