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    Default Introduce GF to friends

    Hi everyone! I couldn't find any topics, or the right section of the forum to post this. Don't know if it's a PUA advice I should be asking for but I'd like to hear your point of view as you've really helped me up until now.

    I've been on dates with this girl since December, always us two, no friends. She is not my GF yet, but I see the relationship moving that way. I really enjoy our time together.

    Now I think it's time we start hanging out with friends, even asking her to come home or maybe go to her house (we both live with our parents). She is 30, and I'm 27, I know it looks we shouldn't be living with our parents with that age but here in Brazil it is very standard this behavior, unless you move to another city to work or get married on your twenties.

    Is there any tips on these first meetings with this new people? Besides been myself...

    We are probably meeting these people at their/our houses, or bars, BBQs, etc. Not in clubs/parties enviroment.

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    Default Re: Introduce GF to friends

    The biggest difference was always showing how comfortable I was with them. You can't be afraid to tease them. As long as it is really playful and light, even her parents should appreciate a good banter. As long as you don't mind letting them win if you feel it getting nowhere. So don't let them intimidate you and be playful, but not too playful. Hope this helps and good luck.
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    Default Re: Introduce GF to friends

    I wasn't expecting, but yesterday, while I was on a birthday party, she invited me to join her and another couple at a bar (they were visiting her, from another city). I showed up 1 hour later, they were almost leaving, then we went to their house to eat dessert. It was nice, far easier than I expected.

    Thanks Batman! I get your point. In the end, as I already read here in the forum, behaving as a PUA, or at least not as an AFC, should be part of your whole life, in every aspect and relationship, not only with girls you are playing with, although it should be calibrated a little bit differently. But all the teasing, negging, DHV, build confort, rapport, and body language must be there with friends and parents.


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