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    reasonmontague is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Advice on how to proceed with possible LTR

    So Ive been seeing a girl on and off for about two months, which isnt long but lately we've been seeing more and more of each other. So recently she went out of town, so in my head I was thinking Ill let her do her thing and not reach out to her.

    With that being said... Before she left, and well about 10 days before she left she had mentioned that she wanted me to come down to Miami with her. Now I am usually all for this, and would totally go for the experiecne. But I am freelancer, so my work comes up quick. Now its been a cpl of days with no communicating and she starts to text me, and I can tell that she has been drinking but that doesn't matter.

    Her: (a picture of a guy, that looks like an older/tough version of me) 8:10P
    Her: go get weird :-p 8:11p
    her: Ha okay dont get weird... Not sure why I thought of you when I saw this but I did. Hope youre weeks gone well 8:32p
    Me: Haha Noelle. Miss me
    Her: Dont Emoji me! Can't wait to see you upon my return... Miami Maybe 9:38P
    Her: Maybe not wish thinking 9:38p
    Me: Welcome to Miami! 10:32A

    I responded the next day because I had to work really early, and passed out. So I want to know, how do I proceed to let her know, that I am coming to Miami to meet her. Since, I already sent that text to her, I dont want to come across as needy....

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    Default Re: Advice on how to proceed with possible LTR

    Bro, this girl is totally into you. No doubt. Who cares. Just tell her you are in town and you are going to party it up in Miami. that's it. keep it simple. she's going to be psyched you are there. don't overthink it. trust me. this girl is really into you.
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    Default Re: Advice on how to proceed with possible LTR

    Blazeboy!


    Thanks for the response, I figured she is really into me but heres the backstory. We both live and met in NYC, she has invited me down there on to stay at her place at The Standard...

    No wouldnt that be going against the rules, since its on her time and she invited me to her?

    How does that work out?

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    Default Re: Advice on how to proceed with possible LTR

    If she invites you on her time, then that's totally cool. The fact that it's a suprise (right?) is very cool if a chick is into you. I have done that a few times in my life and was never disappointed in the reaction. She's clearly been thinking about you. The fact that she is drunk texting you is huge. If she's thinking about you when she's drunk and probably getting hit on by every skeez balls... that's a very good sign. Go for it bro. have a great time man!
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    Default Re: Advice on how to proceed with possible LTR

    Awesome man thanks!

    I dont want to overthink... but since My last text was "welcome to Miami" and she never responded, how do I approach that?

    Also, technically it might not be a surprise because she is coming back to NYC before she goes to Miami, and wants to see....

    How would I go about re-opening the frame, Im not even sure when she is coming back honestly, haha.

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    Default Re: Advice on how to proceed with possible LTR

    I don't understand... so are you in Miami right now or no? Or are you going there tomorrow? I'm confused.
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    Default Re: Advice on how to proceed with possible LTR

    Yeah I can see how this can confusing...

    So right now I am in NYC, she is in Atlanta for work, and we both live in NYC. She comes back to NYC on Sunday (I think).. not really sure?

    About a week ago she mentioned that she is going to Miami for work and wants me to come with her and stay at her place at The Standard, she has brought this up on numerous occasions and brought it up again last night in the text that I posted.

    With that being said, should I call her to discuss, since I better at calling or wait until she calls me?...


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