Okay guys, here it is...
I've been in pick up for about 3 years. Completely changed my life, made me what I wanted to be, women in abundance, value through the roof.
I'd even consider myself somewhat "advanced" now...I was a virgin when I started...now I've slept with over 20 women, each of them high value...random women that I meet in bars. Fun times right!?
So then this P.U.A here gets complacent, he forgets about "The Game" and starts playing it natural, he transitions better but he forgets all he learns when he meets a certain girl.
This girl, he dates over summer...he doesn't see any other women, he's content with her company, she's great. Perfect for him even.
He stops writing in third person.
It becomes long distance when she goes off to college. No official "label" on it still at this point and it had been 3 months, due to me avoiding it. I wasn't ready and I wanted her to feel like she "changed" me from this player she met to this sweet guy. Giving her a sense of power and tapping into the maternal instinct.
She decides to break it off with me back in November, because she can't do the long distance thing, she needs to focus on her studies yadda yadda yadda.
It's been two months and it's consumed my every waking thought. I've slept with girls since her, girls that were better in bed, girls that were hotter, girls that were higher value socially to her...but she's still "it" y'know. The great white buffalo. The one that got away. The one I really, honestly want to be with.
How guys, do I get this broad back with me...over long distance (it's not even that far away, 2 hours on a train.)
Is there a long term plan I can play here? I'm not looking for a quick fix.
I know she's still attracted me (a month after the "break up" we had a night in a club together, kissing/holding each other, telling each other we are just in the wrong place at the wrong time. We agreed that this wasn't like a final nail in the coffin sort of deal, one day we might be able to make it work...her words not mine.
Major oneitis here right!?
I know enough about to game to know that if I was special enough to her, if she cared about me enough...come hell or high water, we'd be together. But we're not. Here's where I need help. How do I make her think "fark I've made a huge mistake here".
My value is very high thanks to pick up, thanks to my job, my age, my dress sense, my friends, my online personna, the fact that women actively, publicly show me sexual intent.
We've left it well as friends. She messages me pretty much every week for a catch up, I never send the first message. She opens the dialogue then she allows it to fizzle out until she wants to speak to me again...
I can't see, from a PUA perspective, what I'm missing...I really think I tick every box. So I'm hoping you guys can point out something glaringly obvious here and slap some sense into me.
A very tired P.U.A,